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  The assertion that most guys are amBIsexual
is one that many men may
deny as a knee-jerk reaction. However, when you eliminate
the "gay" -
stereotypes of GenderFuck and AnalSex, -what steers most men sexually is
simply hard-wired: REFLEX. And many guys discover how very true this
all is soon into their teens on the 1st hand basis of actual experience!
"Friends w. benefits?" - Yeah, & when masculine respect is the rule; - It
can be awesome!
Kinsey's research indicated that well over +35-55%
of the male population found a healthy male physique to be attractive (with
accounts of same-sex experiences reaching upwards to 70% in some populations)! This makes sense
because all mammalian life starts out with the same general body form: Female by
default. This is why men have nipples (ever ponder that one?)! Several
weeks after conception, testosterone causes the "male" (y-switch) coded body to
masculinize - changing some physical traits (I.E: forming a penis) & rewiring
the brain somewhat. This
differentiation on the mental level also accounts
for why boys are generally more risk-taking & more aggressive than
girls. However, understanding that FEMALE is the default body form from
which the male is adapted also gives some cues as to WHY amBIsexuality
is the normal male sexual perspective.
 Testosterone in-utero upgrades the
default wiring and when puberty happens the modified brain wiring becomes more
"female-interested" (prior to which, -girls are perceived as "yucky").
However, due to the nature of the rewiring -the "default" abilities to
appreciate masculine cues are seldom ever completely disabled. And the
stronger -more pronounce effects of "maleness" resulting from the androgenizing
effects of testosterone are more easily recognized by all men & generally seen
as desirable traits. Again: The default wiring of the brain is
fundamentally - female; -And it takes testosterone and genetics in-utero to
upgrade it into a 'male'. In most cases, the
default mental wiring also persists & as these men hit puberty - they discover that they can
"see" what makes both genders aesthetically desirable.
 Most men keep this information about themselves private due to modern
stereotypes & stigmas about same gender attractions. Testosterone does not
affect the degree of physical development of everyone in an identical fashion
which is why some men are more preoccupied with women than others. If you
analyze the historical record over the last 3000 years - it turns out that men
loving men is not an oddity at all. What is somewhat strange is a man who does
not love women. I.E: Men who are a 6 on Kinsey's scale. In ancient
cultures - such a man is considered a eunuch - whether or not he is intact
physically. To repeat: historically, the oddity was not if a guy loves another
guy/s but was when a guy didn't love women. Consider how those facts
have been completely skewed in today's popular mythos & you'll understand what a
gigantic mind-job has been pulled on the entirety of society. This is because
what the Greeks knew 3000 years ago is still true & human nature does not
change! Guys loving guys/too is the biological norm! However, this natural
affection does NOT take the form of the androgynous genderfuck &
analsex-orgies portrayed by the "gay-media"! To the contrary: Such friendships
exhibit such respect & camaraderie that people routinely see them & don't
recognize just how intimate the friendship is in private!
  This
realization is becoming more widespread. And, ever increasing are the number of
publications that talk about so-called "straight-men" who hook up with other
men. The reason why this "curiosity" is increasing is that society is
becoming more open in general due to the increased visibility of so-called same-gender
"marriage" and personal topics that people would not have disclosed years ago
are becoming open for discussion. But the current straight/gay sexuality
paradigm (with bisexuality seen as a minority) doesn't explain the growing
number of visible same-gender relationships among men who people presume are
"straight". So the conversation is cloaked in mystery because the language
framing the current paradigm is terribly flawed. G0YS.org has been trying
to explain this for a long while. Once you abandon the current paradigm of
Straight/Gay and adopt Kinsey's research as the basis for understanding
sexuality - then it all makes perfect sense. Guys loving guys is the
biological norm! Why repeat myself?
Because lies told for decades are difficult to dispel! & often replaced with new
lies instead of the truth. However, I do tip my hat to Bill Maher who aired
this segment (& notice
the stats he starts out with are in lockstep with what g0ys have pointed out
about Kinsey's research. +63% is the eventual number Bill!).
 So, while the brains of most sexually mature men will
discover that peak-physical female anatomy causes erections, urges and erotic
thoughts about copulation; -A percentage of those same men will also experience
similar reactions when viewing peak-physical male anatomy due to the persistence of the default
brain wiring existent in-utero. This is NOT a moral weakness. It's a
society-bonding empathetic strength and it is the MALE-MAJORITY experience.
Human nature does not change; -& once upon a time a culture in Greece
completely acknowledged these facts about men and openly integrated them into everyday
life. In ancient Greece - everyone matter-of-factly (yawn) knew that men were
wired like this and there was no stigma whatsoever regarding men who loved men (AnalSex
was ILLEGAL in such M/M relationships). I.E: It is well known
historically that the greatest love in the life of Alexander-the-Great was
general
Hephaestion! And as I said - human nature does not change. What the
ancient Greeks commonly knew - is still true.
And as it turns out - most men are
selectively amBIsexual. However, many men only realize this attraction for
another guy when the physical cues cause by testosterone are accentuated, I.E: Lean
musculature, cut symmetry, higher-aggression, deepened voice & puberty induced
body hair. The more intense the traits - the more men find it attractive.
It has been an observation that men who are into men often have higher standards
for physical aesthetics then men generally have for women. And very often, (due
to this dynamic) men who prefer men have a number
male friends that they have no physical attraction to whatsoever because such "vanilla"
friendships are often with men who do NOT exhibit peak traits of high testosterone.
 See, higher brain functions such as reasoning, logical
thought & volition are not what make sexual orientation happen. Sexuality is
a result of merely recognizing reflexes and the
results of a man's internal sexual wiring. This is why people can't "choose" their
sexual orientations. It's not a force of will-power. It's pure discovery and the
reasons "why"
a person has these "feelings" are completely outside of a person's control.
 There is also a secondary reason why men who
don't necessarily see men as physically desirable are still able to enjoy sexual
release with certain men. See, male human sexuality is reflexive
because men's genitals are exposed and erections are caused by a number of factors
- not just erotic thoughts. External stimulation (friction/masturbation) is one
cause. And this is often what men who fall onto the lower numbers of Kinsey's
scale discover. So, what causes Kinsey 1's,
& 2's to happen? Sexual release with these guys is usually caused by (2)
factors:
 The 1st is activity that causes an erection
reflex. This can be many things but when with another guy it's usually activity
that brings both men into close contact (such as wrestling) and the physical
interactions cause repeated pressure and friction on the genitals of the man as
he interacts. Depending on how the nerves in the spinal cord deal with the
signals coming from the genital area will determine if the guy experiences an
erection. This is literally beyond his control. He experiences the event. It is
a reflex. But once this reflex begins, it also causes a feedback loop based on
blood-chemistry to occur. The blood entering a man's penis is trapped there because
return circulation is partially prevented (this is what physically causes the man's penis
to grow & harden). The blood
 trapped in the penis is soon depleted of oxygen
which causes the color of a mans erection to turn bluish as time passes. To prevent
injury, the tissues inside and near the penis release protective potassium ions which cause
a number of things to occur - including the release of a large number of
neurotransmitters in and around the erection that make the event feel very,
very, very good. The purpose of this release of neurotransmitters is to move the
process along to completion (orgasm) -after which, the blood flow will return to
normal & hence, prevent
the injuries of
priapism. This is why erections caused by friction over
an extended period feel good ... and why once a man's penis has taken on a
bluish appearance - that he often feels a pressing need to orgasm/ejaculate.
Some people hypothesize that when a man has reached this condition that his
state of mind is so overwhelmed with natural neuro-chemicals that he takes on
such a preoccupation of completing this goal that
diminishes his capacity for making any decision that would stop or even slow
the process - especially in younger men with very high levels of testosterone.
Defense attorneys should take note. (Personally, if a
woman has given consent, but testifies that at some
time after being penetrated she had a "change of mind";
- as a juror I will NOT render a GUILTY VERDICT
in such a "rape" case! Some men can't stop beyond such a point and I will not be
party to destroying a man's life because some cunt had proverbial buyer's
remorse after she had already begun to drive the car away from the
dealership!). But I digress...
  The 2nd component to this
- is the level of trust
and emotional comfort the guy shares with the other man (-minus any
negative
social messages that may be present that would form psychological inhibitions).
The overall aggregate "weight" these interactions create determines how willing the guy is
to letting the event causing his penile-pleasure to continue. So, even if
the man himself does not find other guy physically erotic, - he may be willing to
allow an erection that has resulted from a
friction-reflex be tendered in order to enjoy the experience - especially if the
other man is a trusted friend who does not mind the event -or- is experiencing a
similar event himself.
When those dynamics come into play, it's not
unusual for either or both men to ramp up the activity that is causing the genital-stimulation in order to enjoy the next reflex:
Orgasm
(which feels good beyond words). The
combination of these activities also produce the neurotransmitter oxytocin - that
causes each man's brain to create stronger emotional attachments to his buddy. It
makes for a more solid friendship bond that feels more "trustworthy". And once
this trust is established, -men will get together for physical intimacy & sexual release more
frequently - especially when a guy who is low on Kinsey's scale
(Kinsey1-2) finds himself outside of a
M/F relationship & is sexually on edge - needing to climax to regain his
mental/emotional equilibrium. Why jack off when it feels so much better to
have a best-buddy do the deed for you? That's what puts the "best" in the
term "best-friends". Between 22-33% of the male population has/will
experience this basic, private, bonding, purely reflexive dynamic with a
good, male friend. Many men will get intoxicated with other men in the hope that
this situation will develop due to the inhibitions of alcohol! This is why the
old joke goes something like: "Q: How do you turn a straight guy? A:
With a 6-pack." Intoxication does not change sexual orientation. It merely
lowers inhibitions against what is already there psychologically.
So, there are (2) primary contributing reasons for male sexual bonding and every
combination of intimate friendship results based on the unique combinations of perspective both
men have. This ranges from: "I'm not into the male physique erotically, but
having a trusted buddy jack me off feels much better than doing the deed myself"; -All the
way to the other: "I think the male physique is beautiful & desirable and I
really enjoy giving another guy intense pleasure because it's where my loving,
emotional & erotic core is naturally.". The statistics add up to
about +63% of men - a MAJORITY!
Most guys are Bi!
  Author
& Sexuality Researcher P. Tremblay wrote in a related research paper that: "In
1960, I was growing up in a working class community where
homosexual activity between young male friends was common, not the exception.
Its predominant manifestation was "sex with equality," that included mutual
masturbation and oral sex, but not anal sex (Bagley, 1997: 183). The latter was
not even thought about, except for eventually learning that passive anal sex was
an activity engaged in by apparently degraded males who thought themselves to be
like women, or were labeled as such because they were accepting the status of
being anally penetrated. Effeminate males with apparent or perceived feminine
manners or characteristics did not exist in our community. Sexual activities
with other males generally reflected our social relationships: the most sex with
one's best friend, and lesser sex with lesser friends. Boys had girlfriends and
knew heterosexual sex, as it was well understood having learned the word "fuck"
and what it meant. An Australian study (Connell, Davis & Dowsett, 1993)
reported that working class male environments at the time I was a teenager were
"uncompromisingly heterosexual: to be masculine is to fuck women" (126).
Anal sex between homo-sex active males was also associated with problems given
that "fucking and being fucked in our heterosexist culture also carries
connotations of dominance and submission, active and passive, masculine
and
feminine; and some of our respondents acknowledged this" (123). The
Australian study might, in part, explain why even the thought of "fucking" one's
best friend was precluded in my community. This kind of activity
(AnalSex) or related
desires was in violation of our equality-based male bonding friendships.
Sexual activity was also only a small part of our daily life, and it was not an
everyday activity although it was common and at times, enjoyed more than once a
day. In Ref to any Suicide Ideations:
My own adolescent environment, however, precluded
having such feelings (of depression) because
desires to have sex with other males, and engaging in such joyful activities,
resulted only in knowing that I was part of a majority even if, as with
masturbation, my sexual activities with other males were to be private acts. It
is also doubtful, given the information available from Ancient Greece, that
adolescents boys of (that) period would have
experienced self-hatred and isolation, with associated suicidal feelings,
because they had love and sex desires for older males. If suicidal feeling
existed,
they would likely have been experienced by
a male youth who was being
ignored by all older males(!) Therefore,
the reported exceptionally high rate of "suicide problems" for present-day males
recognizing their same-gender sexual desires (males who often identify as gay or
bisexual) may be a social construction intimately linked to another possible
social construction: the increasing rarity of males (throughout the 2nd half of
the 20th century) reporting same-gender sexual
desires and related sexual activity in the Western World - a slowly reversing
trend." What Tremblay stumbled onto in his own experience & research are
fundamental truths about male sexuality (widely
known & accepted in antiquity) that became increasingly slandered &
discredited by abusive governments & religions - causing great amounts of
societal damage!
 In
the modern, -the confusion and sense of mystery that so
many recent publications exude regarding same gender intimate activity among men is simply because the authors and most of the
readers - simply haven't wrapped their minds around the evidence that Alfred
Kinsey amassed during his research into human sexuality in the 1940's. I
occasionally observe Kinsey referenced but often, - the author goes back to using the
terms "Straight, Bi and Gay" - reducing the facts of Kinsey's sexuality research
back into the flawed thought processes of (3) sexuality categories. If you
really understand Kinsey's numbers then you understand that the people who are
at the endpoints on his scale are in the minority - even when their numbers are
combined!
"People need to wake the fuck up about the facts Kinsey unearthed". -
GY
 That's right: The number of people who Kinsey
identified as "Totally Straight" were under 40% (probably under 35% if the truth
be told). The number of people who identified as completely
same-gender-attracted are less than 10%. Combined, their numbers are under
50% - leaving more than +50% in the "amBIsexual-to-some-degree" category.
The numbers are there but people don't seem to be able to generally understand
that this means 1 out of every 2 people are selectively amBIsexual to some
degree. And most of these people do NOT find the CULTURE that is called
"GAY" to be something that they identity with. Often - such as with g0ys -
it is quite the opposite. Men who appreciate masculinity defined by the
effects of testosterone - find the concept of "Ben in a bra" to be repulsive &
demeaning. This widespread feeling among so many men is why the term "gay"
with it's gender-bending oddness is often openly shunned & rejected - even by
men who love men/too. It's simply due to the freak-show of the thing called "gay
culture" (watch a "gay-pride" event & judge for yourself if 'freaky' is the
correct term) that causes these normal guys to disassociate themselves with the
term "gay" altogether.
And it's for many of these reasons that
explain why most guys are amBIsexual to some degree and yet, - why so many men
are unaware of the widespread nature of these common feelings and experiences!
For a massively in-depth study about male sexuality & how definitions changed
over time, CLICK HERE.
"♪onathan:
You were very delightful
to me; your love
was wonderful
to me,
exceeding the love of women."
- Actual BIBLICAL Song lyrics by King David
of Israel! (See: 2nd Samuel 1:26)
The entire concept of "GAY" is one giant
mind-job!
 As one g0y from
Portugal clarified (translated): "We're in that month of the year where
everyone puts "pride" stickers wherever they want so that they
can see themselves as "progressive" and "inclusive" and one of
the main arguments I see from these people is that "Being gay is
not a choice; -People are born that way". Honestly, I couldn't
disagree more with this because:
1. "Gay" is not an actual sexual orientation unlike what many "progressivists"
claim to be. In reality, "gay" is a sexual, political and
cultural identity that mixes drag shows, transgenderism,
non-binary mumbo-jumbo, post-progressive politics, ethic
nihilism, promiscuity and especially the dangerous practice of
anal sex all into one large term that used to only mean a person
who would be same gender attracted. So, obviously, no one is
actually born with any of these characteristics because most, if
not all of these things that are now synonyms with the word
"gay" are social constructions which have nothing to do with
same gender attraction! In fact, the whole LGBT community
doesn't seem to be very coherent in what they themselves
consider to be "gay". In one hand, they claim that all men who
exclusively love other men are gay and that's all; -But, on the
other hand, they claim that if a man who loves other men refuses
to participate in anal sex or defend any of the things their
community defends, he's not really gay! And believe me, I know
that very well because I once experienced gay-identified men advising
me to ask myself if I really was "gay" since I refused to
partake in such a horrible, disgusting and grotesque practice
that he wanted to do with me
 !
So, if the Gay Community can't
actually make their minds up about what being "gay" actually
means, how on Earth can a person be actually born that way? It's
impossible! That's just a huge lie our society has being telling
us for quite some time by now.
2. There is a clear difference between being same gender
attracted and being outright gay!
Same gender attraction is
something most men and women feel naturally; -It's part of human
nature, no matter how much heternormative crusaders try to deny
it! Being gay, on the other hand is clearly a choice and it's
clearly socially and culturally constructed since there's an
actual community pretty much teaching people what it means to be
gay and what one should do/how one should behave if he/she is
one of them! It's not something naturally constructed, it's
clearly something cultural because it mixes things like
idolizing pop-divas like Madonna, Britney, etc., being obsessed
with Broadway musicals, liking to pretend to be the gender
you're not and to be as less masculine as possible
!
And this has
nothing to do with same gender attraction! I've always been
exclusively same-gender attracted and I never really cared for
any of those things I just mentioned. In fact, most of them I
find to be quite embarrassing. Very honestly speaking and here,
once again, is where the incoherence typical of the gay
community comes to show because, on one hand, they keep telling
people that none of those things are a requirement for someone
to be gay but, on the other hand, they keep doing the exact
opposite claiming that "gay" is this, that and that and
whoever's not following any of that is not "doing it right"!
So, in conclusion:
Being same gender attracted: Not a choice.
Being gay: A choice that is socially, culturally and politically
encouraged by the LGBT propaganda on many men who love other men
and have no idea how to deal w. that."
I will also note that many of the "studies & surveys" now being reported in the
media as if recently discovered - have been showcased at g0ys.org since 2003!
The media's hesitation to report the g0y source is because
g0ys is brazenly politically incorrect and openly
hostile to the low-brow audience that the mass-media panders to. However,
the g0ys movement has exploded into highly masculine environments such as
military, athletics & college fraternities - because men who appreciate
raw masculinity find the g0ys philosophy to be an attractive, honorable
expression for loving guys (as opposed to the gay paradigm's attempt to dilute
testosterone into obscurity with "estrogen")! For
more insight, click...
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