website contains content authored by people who actually have passionate
beliefs that matter. We don't tolerate fools well, -nor do we make light
of life/death issues. We don't giggle at mindsets that downplay perilous
philosophies, actions, or the effects of such. I.E: Dr.
Ignaz Semmelweis is one of our role-models. Like Semmelweis's
common-sense approach to hygiene, -G0YS simply point out the well known
perils about playing in SHIT; --Perils that the "GAY" community
desperately seems to want to ignore & make light of the cause/s. Of
course, -being a g0y involves more to a guy's personality profile than a
natural revulsion to using soiled diapers as a picnic spread. But, sanity
is always a good place to start. If you find yourself being
"offended" at content on this site, --simply ask yourself:
"Are these g0ys denouncing a group or act that is dangerous,
disrespectful, demeaning, disease-spreading or deadly?" -OR- "Is
the tone of the site appropriate to the seriousness of the subject at
hand?". If the obvious answer is "YES", -then you're
experiencing a variation of the "Semmelweis
Reflex"; --And G0YS are not the cause of your offense ... (You
Many guys feel a great
sense of separation from others over time as they live with the
presumption that same-gender-affections makes them somehow
different from average guys. You see, many of us got the 'message' all
our lives (post 1950) that guys who were into other guys were (pick
a vile expletive)... Our families, churches, friends,
enemies, schools, etc., -- often paint/ed a language of hate
speech aimed at all 'socially forbidden attractions'.
There were also stereotypes about same-sex activity that
were often disgusting distortions of some type of fetish
(I.E: anal-sex: Most guys want nothing to do with that sort of
dangerous & debased behavior).
Most of us could not identify with the
way 'gay' was portrayed, so we adopted the same 'anti-gay' rhetoric as our
friends, families, churches, schools, & even our enemies - all
in order to stay hidden. We don't need to be told that this is a
vicious circle. Growing with the passing of time, was the
feeling that we didn't fit into our peer groups. This
isn't as much because we had compassionate feelings for our
buds, but because there was an overriding realization; -- that
nobody really seemed to cared about the real, hidden "us". Time
provides the cement that makes most of these beliefs firm in
their substance. As some men have said: "What I suspected
in my teens, I accepted in my twenties; And overwhelming
depression often followed everywhere." But,
realization often arose a stark contradiction. You see, although
many of us were majorly repressed; --We often discovered
(amazingly) that we
had friends who we could & did get extremely close
to. And, as we got older, we also begin to realize that
maybe, other 'STR8' guys weren't as 'STR8' as they
Yeah, for a lot of guys!
Real Message of Prejudice:
What the continual
message is to the person who is too straight to identify with
"gay", -- to the person unsuspected as having anything other
than 'normal' feelings ... What that ultimate
message really is: -- Is that the real person (the
one with the real feelings kept behind a mask), is
unacceptable & unlovable. After all, if you have close
friends & ties with family all based on an incomplete projection
of who you are, -- AND these same people openly curse,
loathe & demean people who openly have the same types of feelings you
so carefully conceal; - Then the implied message can only be: 'You are hated for
who you really are; - despite the fact that you may seem the
most popular person in the room'. This is why people who
deal with same-sex affections have a suicide rate much higher
than other demographic groups. The realization that "Everybody
who loves me - actually hates me." is too brutal for many guys to
handle. So, drinking, drugs, disease, & depression become
a fatal dynamic for many men trying to "cope" w. their
feelings. But, for many men who do not 'gay-identify' (maybe even have a wife &
kids), coming out to the world may not seem an option.
However, if you read on, you're going to reach the startling conclusion that you were never as alone as you
that society has built a tower of lies around sexuality that
they hypocritically call "morality" on one hand, &
"liberation" - callously on the other. Guys who love guys &
aren't 'GAY'? We're G0Y; & we don't play by 'their'
shifting, foggy, obtuse rules any more (hence, this site)! You're N0T alone!
You're N0T a freak. One size doesn't fit all! And
the thing that is really going to bake your noodle is that there
are probably lots (L0TS) of guys near you feeling the
exact same way -clueless that they're surrounded by normal guys feeling
the same way! Read on!
Real Reason for so-called 'Homo Hate':
loathe the concept of being "arse-phuck'd"; - 0r
associated with "arse-phuckr's"! Men who rape men use that form of
assault for a reason: It is the ultimate statement of disrespect.
original use of the word "PHUCK"
was a 'cuss' insinuating penetration. It is
the verbal approximation of the nonverbal noises ASSociated
with the term's meaning.
So then, the term "phuck-you" has a very specific
meaning when spoken man to man!
Since the media, (& now
society), - generally
That "All Same-Sex Affection = 'GAY'", & since
the media asserts that "GAY*sex*" =
"ANAL*sex*"; -- Most men logically connect the term "gay"
with ; - something that they'd never do to their buddies!
And, like it or not: Guys who wear the "gay" label
make themselves guilty by ASSociation w. a group that loudly
perversion under the sun -& calls that clusterphuck: "gay pride"!
G0YS, however, believe that pride should be earned.
The real issue is
not male/male intimacy; -- But the dirty, disrespectful & even dangerous attitudes towards
masculinity such as 'ANAL*SEX'. Most men want absolutely nothing to do with
such forms of
moral turpitude. The term "GAY" is generally
shunned, -not because it implies tender, physical male friendships, --but
because the term is solidly welded to the notions of AnalSex, GenderBending
& other forms of abuse in the public psyche. Most men find those implications
grossly offensive to their own ethos.
to the anti-samesex messages that so many guys continuously broadcast (out of terror of
being associated with a group of half-men); --The vast majority (+63%) of
men recognize a certain degree of internal same-gender affection for
certain other guys. However,
when given the chance to act on these feelings, -the expression does NOT
resemble the types of stereotypical behaviors that the "gays"
have made themselves notorious for. Most guys know instinctively that AnalSex is
a grossly perilous & shameful fetish; -A crime against humanity itself
in the practice. Playing in shit is dangerous & disgusting. Using a
man's arse as a proxy for a woman's vag is a massive act of disrespect
& incredibly perilous from a medical angle. And yet
"GAY" is term that has been WELDED by use to those very acts of
shame. And for that set of ASSociations do men of good conscience shun any
connection to the term "gay". A person may say "GAY"
meaning simple "same-gender affection", --but the world around
them hears "shamefully complicit to
AnalSex; --an arse-fukk'r". So, quite
literally, --ethical, discerning men avoid association with the term "gay"
like they avoid the plague. Most guys have a few buddies that they'd enjoy
a long bout of nude physical contact with. However -these same guys would
never consider buttfukk'n a bro. That offensive concept doesn't even enter
their mind. So, while outwardly they're "anti-gay", --they're
actually "anti-emasculation". They'd NEVER BITCH-A-BRO.
And they don't want any ASSociation with any group of "guyths"
who would. Get it?
the term "GAY" was coined, --it originally meant "Same
Gender Attracted". G0YS have no problem with THAT simple
definition. However, -as time passed, the term "GAY" became
connected with cross-gender behaviors (which is why "intersexed"
& "transgender" ride in the gay-pride passenger seats) & perilous acts such as AnalSex.
In many places, the term "GAY-SEX" has come to equate
"ANAL-SEX". G0YS completely reject that notion and find the
ASSociation repugnant to our innate morals. Please keep those
distinctions in mind whenever you read a G0Y commentary critical of
"The GAYS". It is not the original use of the term,
--but what it has morphed into, -that g0ys find reprehensible (& "reprehensible"
is perhaps, -too soft of a descriptor).
published research that indicated that
the male population had experienced one or more sensual/sexual encounters
with other men. Despite controversy surrounding some of his
mounting evidence continues to confirm that many
of his findings were indeed, - accurate.
Likewise, since this
website went on-line, it has drawn the fire of criticism from many
directions & has been misrepresented by some who would rather
slander, than offer a rational argument for their posturing.
merely ask that you, the visitors - look for yourselves, read
the various essays posted by our g0ys contributors, & -then-
thoughtfully draw your own conclusions!
G0YS as a philosophy
is proudly saving the
health & lives (& restoring the self-esteem) of men all over
the world. Our well reasoned positions regarding sexuality have taken
to task both: religious "fundamentalists", -and- the "liberal
gays". Our members are among the healthiest men of any
demographic on the planet! Among g0ys, sexually transmitted diseases are a virtual
non-issue and we generally do NOT
promote the use of condoms (for anything other than birth control)! How can this be? G0YS, by our very nature, reject ALL
anal-fetish related acts! And, we strongly discourage physical
intimacy with others who reject our philosophy. This philosophy
lowers our risk of perilous sexually transmitted diseases to far less than
1:25,000 of that of the men who call themselves
"gay"! Our statistics are derived from figures
provided by the C.D.C,
& the A.R.C.
regarding the extreme perils of anal fetishes: +90% of ALL
sexually transmitted infections among men (STD's/STI's) are spread via ANAL
VECTORS! Our (g0ys') philosophy is: "Love works no ill toward
the anti-gay and pro-sodomy groups stridently opposed to the
views of the G0YS, -it makes you wonder why neither group can
rationally accept the g0ys' time-proven message of: love &
respect of the masculine - framed in honesty, dignity, health &
self-control." - Unbekannt
So, You think that
you're the "Only One"?
You may be
here because you feel completely alone in your situation. After
all, you're basically a regular guy who behaves like any other regular
guy. You may even date women or be married. But, deep
inside, you also deal with strong feelings of real warmth + genuine
affection for other guys too. You've seen the media's take on
the "gay" community; & you N0T relate to that
image, AND you find many of the practices repulsive to your basic
The truth is, you're a guy who really loves
masculinity & appreciates those traits in other men, while
simultaneously finding actions that effeminize masculine men to be
grossly distasteful <link>. You probably look forward to
your buds -- especially those times when you can horse around, wrestle
& even be a little tender -- like when you've had a few beers
(or maybe just got done pinning the guy down wrestling) & you find
your arm around him, resting a
hand on his upper or lower back in a casual, reaffirming hug. You're
the definition of "respectful", but you want to be closer, too.
The mind-blowing truth is simply this: Odds are greatly in your favor
that the majority of your buds feel the same feelings for a few guys in various
degrees! Resolution comes by understanding
what's truly good & natural behavior, -as opposed to the "shameful disrespect"
masquerading as "progressive gay-culture". Are you ready to live a more
abundant life by learning to apply wisdom to your thought process
-while rejecting the fool's errands society's educated fools task the
93 Percent Of
"Straight" Men In
This Study Said They've Cuddled With Another Guy
once a guy discovers that other guys are also receptive to M2M intimacy - without the
-- he often has an extreme epiphany, - where he realizes that
feelings of deep
compassion for some of his peers are totally normal, ethical
& part of natural, masculine affection. And, -most of these
same guys do N0T relate to what they
see the mass-media portray as: "GAY"! Such men are 'G0Y
(spelled with a ZER0)'; -- & the mind blowing truth is:
We (g0ys) represent the
majority of men! And because that's the
truth - you won't need switch off your higher brain functions, nor abandon
(nor compromise) your ethics, nor breach your relationship with God (as some men have been falsely led to believe).
For those with questions along Theological lines -see the "God
Hates" section to the left!
is GLOBAL. That's a fact. Major "GAY" publications are
taking note of the G0Ys movement (such as the South African "GAY
PAGES" as shown to the right). Some are curious; -others
confused & yet others even welcoming (especially in areas where
STD's like HIV have ravaged the population).
Many "GAY" publications & commentaries are outright
hostile toward g0ys --especially in those regions where
"GAY" has been welded to the spectre of AnalSex (a fetish
that g0ys totally reject). What men all over the world are
discovering is that g0ys are -and have been- the MAJORITY of "normal guys" all
along. Since the 1970's, the term "GAY" has morphed to
become a gender - bending & disease - spreading, circus-show (one that
g0ys willfully distance ourselves from).
Two out of
Every Three Guys!
You love the
contact & would like to be closer, but you have these fears that
people might think you were a "queer". However,
you have no
desire to put anything up the other guy's arse, but the fact remains that you'd
majorly enjoy cuddling up with the
dude; - slow rubb'n on him & seeing where it leads. You're into masculine guys but you're not "gay" -- at
least not like the media portrays "gay" as being all about!
You don't care about any media programming with the word "Queer" in it; nor
do you relate (at all) to men who prance about with the same mannerisms as the
guys in the movie: Bird Cage. .
Statistics suggest over +63% of the dudes around you deal with similar
fascinating observation is of the number of groups (especially
appearing on the
internet that exploit the term "g0y" - spelled w. a zer0; --without
actually holding to the g0y-philosophy! What a bunch of
Remember, -we warned you about their existence! Sorry,
but the pure-light of g0ydom was bound to attract the proverbial
"Forget the former
things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
That locker-room talk
about 'FAGS' isn't about basic masculine affection!
website examines many stereotypes about guys who are affectionate on
other dudes (M2M -Male-to-Male Affection); -- & it smashes the
"gay" stereotypes with a line of thinking that is
backed by an ancient paradigm; - the major truth being that guys
who luv guys are in the majority & most often do N0T identify with what is labeled as
"GAY" by the media! You see, there is a
growing body of
(I/E: above Kinsey stats)
showing that it is completely natural for most men to feel
warmth, affection & compassion toward other men. However, in a
society where the modern-media almost exclusively shows men who "love" men as
effeminate, milquetoast, nellie, & into anal sex, -- the
that is loudly broadcast is that "Normal men feel affection only for women,
but men who are tender on other men are into "ASS-SEX"." That message
(a gigantic fukk'n lie), is relatively new - since the post-mid 20th century.
well recorded in history,
are cultures of men who loved masculinity, - and were N0T into anal-sex or
the feminization of other
guys. And the
truth is, that there are lots of guys who luv other guys & would love
to cuddle up (not with everyone, but w. the buds they appreciate)
without anyone getting it up the arse! However the stigma of "gay
sex" & the media images around what "they" say about men who luv men
"do", - scares the social-daylights out of most guys, & prevents them from
being honestly affectionate toward other guys!
There is a paranoid
section of society (eternally on the proverbial witch-hunt) that has
become so disconnected with the reality of natural affection,
that any demonstration of affection is seen to be some sort of
'foreplay' & a butt-fukk precursor.
western, is becoming more dysfunctional with time, - not less!
The proverbial inmates, -for a major part, - have indeed, taken over
|Without the divisive &
fictional concept of a
'heterosexual-norm', - modern fallacies like "sexual orientation" become as
farcical as the medieval concepts of a sun circling a flat
earth! The vast majority of the male population is
amBIsexual (a/k/a "BiSexual") to some degree.
Deal with it. It's OK. Renew your mind!
g0ys just being "Homo-Phobic"?
The term "phobic" comes from the
root "PHOBIA" - meaning fear. Being guys who are into guys,
it seems fairly obvious that we're not afraid of guys into guys.
What g0ys see as a paramount issue is the SELF-INFLICTED-REPUTATION that has
swallowed the gay community & the need to distance ourselves from
that reputation. Why? Stigma
(See analogy to
For example, what does dressing in drag
have to do with being a guy into guys? Clothing is a
cultural thing, so why do so many people associate cross dressing
with "gay"? In other words: If "gay" is
merely about who a person is attracted to - as so many people
blindly assert; -- then why make the connection with Drag, or
other Intersexed behavior? The glaring implications of this
common association mindset are obvious.
The psychology of many "gAy" men into
"drag" is a fixation on what is perceived to be feminine.
However, the fixation is more often about "form" than actual
function. This MISsPERCEPTION,
-- that places "form" on a pedestal, - invariably leads to sexual
expression that is likewise - more about form - than function:
ANAL. This is a psychosis - & an unhealthy,
fetish-driven fantasy-life. To reiterate: What does being a guy who is sexually
interested in guys - have anything whatsoever to do with
gender-bending in any way shape or form? Answer:
Absolutely nothing; - & g0ys find the mixing of the concepts to be
offensive. We are men who love men[.] It has nothing to do
with the feminine. Implying otherwise is simply a LIE.
Human nature being what it is -- we
don't expect many gAys (up to their collective arse-holes in
lie-based fetish-fantasy), -to embrace what is g0y: Quite the
opposite... And you know ... g0ys really don't care.
G0YS detest the concept
of playing in another person's butt.
We're not the only
group that feels this way; And you'll notice I used the gender-neutral
term "person", & not "guy", -- because whether male or female ... butt-play is
a dangerous fetish. Many like myself consider it
immoral because the
practice is the primary vector for STDs globally.
This point is made in several places on this site because the
stigma around it is predominant in the public psyche, -- butt
guys into the
practice seem oblivious to that fact & exhibit a general callous
disregard for the safety of themselves & others by their
acceptance of such dangerous actions. The language such guys
use to address other guys into this fetish is likewise gender
degrading: "Girl", "Bitch", "Queen", etc.
It's more evidence that there are elements in 'gAy' culture that
deride masculinity, & do not know how to treat men as men in
general. One writer observed that the 'gAy male culture'
seems schizophrenic: On the one hand idolizing hyper-masculinity,
& on the other hand seeming preoccupied with 'drag'.
Bizarre role models result in bizarre group behavior -- hence the
preoccupation with anal-fetishes. However, just a great meal does not involve a bowl of shit for dessert;
-- Neither does making love
to another guy have anything to do with his anus. G0YS are
N0T under the influence of any delusion that might suggest that anal penetration might
somehow equal "sex". Penetration only equals sex with women &
genital-to-genital; -- Never anal. G0YS refuse to be ASSociated
with a culture that is framed in the mind of the public as a bunch
of shit-tainted, arse-phuckers. We choose the term "G0Y"
because we are men who reject all the 'baggage' ASSociated with
"gAy" & the "gAy-male community". G0YS find it grossly
offensive. Human nature being what it is -- I don't
expect guys into anal-fetishes to embrace what is g0y: Quite the
opposite... And you know ...
g0ys really don't care what those
with a hom0cidal
feces fetish think.
There is a fundamental
syllogistic fallacy (reasoning
error) that can be described by following generalization:
"Two separate categories are said to be
connected because they share a common property." That flaw in reasoning is promoted time &
time again by people who insist that: because (2) groups (g0y & gAy)
share a common property (M2M sexuality), that they are connected
(Ergo: Both "Gay").
G0YS insist that a common element doesn't make us any more part of the
"GAY" community than Ice can be called Steam because both contain
Water. Philosophically, the fact that the term "gay" is
nebulous (lacking a clear social definition), -constitutes a basis for the need for a distinction
-because today, many people (both from within & without the gay community)
associate the term "gay" with forms of behavior that many people find
morally reprehensible - even criminal. The
inability of the gay-community to police itself or set any standards
within, constitutes a set of repugnant traits that constitute the basis for
g0ys to make the distinction between "US" vs. "THEM".
Some people, (who cannot seem to
understand our sense of incredulity & disgust about the reputation
that "gay male" community has brought upon itself) accuse g0ys of
being "self loathing" or words to that effect. So, once again - I'll
clarify our position to those who make such assertions: We don't
loathe ourselves. We loathe YOUR
complicit arse. If you don't understand the difference
between "us" & "you", -I'm sure that there are available, -several
great books for preschoolers with big colorful pictures that help
explain the difference between those pronouns.
So then: G0YS are not "phobic" at
all. It's a healthy aversion away from the
group that calls itself "GAY" ("GAY" wanting to claim all same-sex
affections as it's own, and then, coincidentally, submerge
them all by ASSociation
into a moral-cesspool of perilous-fetishes &
genderphuck). Most men happen to
strongly agree with g0ys on a gut level -whether or not they're
open in admitting it. If this is not you or
you feel some need to defend "all things gay", then
you're in the wrong place. Clear enough?
Click here to exit this site...
Experiment that has Been My Life:
Blessed with above-average looks &
a leadership personality, I've had a the opportunity to experience
first hand what so many people won't admit happens among guys.
Since becoming sexually mature, I've realized that I bonded
emotionally with other guys & I enjoy the physical aspect of close
relationships. I'm also attracted to an honest, masculine
personality. "Effeminate men" are a turn off -- no matter
how good they look (If I wanted a girlie, I'd date one). Playing sports like I did, I was always
around "tough guys" & in the mind of most of my peers, -- I was
one too. My experiences with so-called "Straight guys" who
turned out to be "g0y" are fairly numerous, & started early on.
Unlike the 'gay culture' portrayed in the media as all about "painted
nails" & the
next piece of tail, -- my relationships with my buds was never
considered "casual" in my mind, & the level of friendship's
the deepest & most intimate even till this day. I consider them
all members of my extended family & very few know the details of
each of my relationships or the relationships' depths; - nor do I pry into
private lives. As a
contributor to the article on this site about "G0YDAR", I can
tell you that this is N0T about "seducing straight men".
It's about getting to know another guy so well he drops his guard
& lets you discover that he was g0y all along. I'm amazed at
the number of "gAy" guys who will accuse
the G0YDAR article of being a
"manual to seduce straight men", -- and in the next breath insist
that sexual orientation is "fixed". They'll insist that you
can't make a gay guy straight; -- while suggesting that the
article on G0YDAR helps make straight guys "gAy"!
Hypocrites! What g0ys
understand by instinct is that we don't embrace
the stigmas surrounding what society says is "gay". Most g0ys are in 'deep
conservative cover' & many are
to the fact that there are many
other people like them on the planet. It can be a painful
existence feeling isolated -- believing that you have nobody
on earth to talk to about how "you" feel.
0ur's is group that
G0YDAR attempts to find. Kinsey hit on the 'g0y' phenomenon
when he compiled his statistics way back in the 1940's. When
you read the statistics about men who have had at least one erotic
encounter with another guy --- that's the mere boundary of G0Y (& it
substantially exceeds 50%)! It's a complex
psychology, but so many g0ys are afraid of the 'gAy label" that they
feign to be "100% str8" -- that is until they meet
another guy they are overwhelmed by. Such guys are not
living discretely for failing to announce their passions to the world. They're
simply g0y; -- & until this movement -simply haven't had a
group philosophy they could identify with (a huge number of so-called
'bi-sexual' men are indeed, g0y -
because the truth is: most men are, indeed, amBisexual).
scarab is not our mascot. G0YS don't play in shit, -nor
do we lust after it's origin. It really is that simple. The
act (anal-sex) -- the focus of the "GAY-male
paradigm", -makes them the most debased movement on
the planet and they have a +50x magnitude of disease statistics proving that
assertion beyond any shadow of a doubt!" -
is not a simple thing. It's multi dimensional.
now exist to graph the frenzied electrical connections in the
brain), ATTRACTORS look like the image to the right.
The complexity is almost infinite, however, brain structures
create similar attractors -virtual circuits -- although no two are identical & they
can slightly change form over time as nature & nurture influence them.
Within the brain, this virtual object is the electrical storm-front
that triggers a flurry of action, responses & reactions. It
even spawns more attractors that cause more activity!
Although this type of abstract analogy may be beyond the intuition
of most readers, - let it suffice to say that actual mathematical models
now exist to explain everything from variances in sexual
attraction -- to why some people hate broccoli while others like
G0Y -- is an attractor set - that many, many men understand
intuitively without knowing the first thing about Kinsey, or chaos
mathematics. This website examines the 'shape' of being "g0y".
If you don't understand, that's ok. Countless men already
experience this kind of attraction & the current social labels &
group paradigms are ill-fitting to them. We can help
them to understand. We are the G0YS!
"The fact remained
that despite the media's reporting of gay-pride & related
events, -- despite all the images & the strange ways that same sex
relationships were painted by the press: I never saw a single
broadcast or read a single article in any paper that came close
to describing the tenderness, intimacy & mutual respect of the
relationships I'd been having with other guys on & off
throughout my lifetime. For the most part, the mass media
-- traditional & so-called 'gay', - completely misrepresent the
reality of most intimate male/male relationships. Society as a
whole has swallowed the
lies so completely that in order to begin to understand the truth, you must
overcome a massive paradigm of deceit
projected from nearly every
you hear the terms 'Gay', 'Straight' or 'Lifestyle' being used;
--You're usually listening to subjective gibberish." - Unbekannt
to me again how sheep bladders may be employed in the prevention of
- Monty Python (In Search of the Holy Grail)
"It is well known, that buggery is a principal cause of earthquakes and
so must be prohibited."