contains content authored by people who actually have passionate beliefs
that matter. We don't tolerate fools well, -nor do we make light of
life/death issues. We don't giggle at mindsets that downplay perilous
philosophies, actions, or the effects of such. I.E:
Dr. Ignaz Semmelweis is one of our role-models. Like
Semmelweis's common-sense approach to hygiene, -G0YS simply point out
the well known
perils about playing in SHIT; --Perils that the "GAY" community
desperately seems to want to ignore & make light of the cause/s. Of
course, -being a g0y involves more to a guy's personality profile than a
natural revulsion to using soiled diapers as a picnic spread. But,
sanity is always a good place to start. If you find yourself being
"offended" at content on this site, --simply ask yourself: "Are these
g0ys denouncing a group or act that is dangerous, disrespectful,
demeaning, disease-spreading or deadly?" -&- "Is the tone of the site
appropriate to the seriousness of the subject matter?". If the obvious
answer is "YES", -then you're experiencing a variation of the "Semmelweis
Reflex"; --And G0YS are not the cause of your offense ... (You
forget there is no amount of fact or truth that will sway the depraved
mind. The depraved mind revels in the excrement of lies." - D. Champion
"Here's a thought: If LITERALLY and ACCURATELY describing what you
advocate & condone sounds like an INSULT, -maybe it's because you're
advocating and condoning irrational, immoral crap. The proper
solution is not to bitch at the people pointing that out. The proper
solution is to STOP advocating and condoning irrational, immoral
crap." - L. Rose
discovered around the age of 12 that I really enjoyed the close
company of a select number of my male friends. Because home
life was so sheltered, I had no access to adult material -so I did
not make any connection with my feelings being "sexual", -nor was my
interest in my buddies directed at their genitals to any degree
whatsoever. I was simply the friend who'd wrestle with a buddy and
then bust into massaging him - often during the wrestling. The
massage would almost always subdue the guy immediately and then I'd
have what I wanted: close contact with a buddy stripped down to his
shorts. If it was a stay-over, -I'd take steps to be sure we
ended up wrestling right before bedtime so that I could end up
wrapped around the guy rubbing on him throughout the night. I
greatly enjoyed the close contact. As I got older, I
eventually made the connection with the sexuality component of my
feelings. And it turned out that a number of my peers were
experiencing similar patterns of social development. As we now
know - this is a very common pattern of development among men.
Not a part of this pattern was any semblance of gender-bending nor
any effeminate behavior. And there was absolutely no place for
analsex (it didn't enter our minds) -as that notion was and is a
completely offensive thought process. The battle that many
guys experience is the implied notion broadcast by the
"gay-community" that "anal-sex" would have fit into our early
male/male affection paradigm. We know instinctively that it
does not fit nor will it ever. AnalSex is a gender-bending act that
proxies a man in the stead of a woman's anatomy and debases the
participants on a number of levels. It also spreads diseases +5000%
faster than any other act (according to the CDC, WHO & ARC)!
This distinction (the lack of anal-fetishes) is what distinguishes
g0ys (+55% of the male population) from morally-soft gAys (<7% of
the male population). And most men feel such a moral revulsion
at the thought of AnalSex that they do not disclose the same-gender
aspects of their pasts for fear of being lumped in with the
gender-bending, analsex tolerating crowd called "gay". The
sexual expression and core values of g0ys are fundamentally
different from the "gAy" crowd and g0ys do not feel any camaraderie
with guys who seem to be half-women in the mannerisms. If you
relate to this viewpoint, --you're part of the +53% MAJORITY of men.
Shocked? Some guys feel a
great sense of separation from others over time as they live
with the FALSE presumption that same-gender-affections make them
somehow different from average guys. You see, most
guys have same gender attractions! Most! Over 60% do! The
MAJORITY! But, many of us
got the 'message' all our lives (post 1950) that guys who
were into other guys were (pick a vile expletive)...
Our families, churches, friends, enemies, schools, etc., --
often paint/ed a language of hate speech aimed at all 'socially
forbidden attractions'. There were also stereotypes about
same-sex activity that were often disgusting distortions
of some type of fetish
(I.E: anal-sex: Most guys want nothing to do with that sort of
dangerous & debased behavior). Most of us could not
identify with the way 'gay' was portrayed, so we adopted the
same 'anti-gay' rhetoric as our friends, families, churches,
schools, & even our enemies - all in order to stay hidden
because we did NOT identify nor relate with what the term "GAY"
implied! We don't need to be told that this is a vicious
circle. But, as we got older, we also begin to realize that
maybe, other 'STR8' guys weren't what they
Yeah, for a lot of guys!
The Real Message of Prejudice:
For so long,
society's continual message ... to the guy who loved guys -even
if he didn't openly identify with the term "gay" ... to the person unsuspected as having anything other
than 'straight' feelings ... What that ultimate
message really said was: ...that the real person (the
one with the real feelings kept behind a mask), was
unacceptable by virtue of his very nature. After all, if you have close
friends & ties with family all based on an incomplete projection
of who you are, -- AND these same people openly cursed,
loathed & demeaned people who openly have the same types of
feelings that you so carefully concealed; - Then the implied message
can only be: 'You are hated for who you really are; -
despite the fact that you may seem the most popular person in
the room'. This is why many people who deal with strong same-sex
affections have a suicide rate much higher than other
demographic groups. The realization that "Everybody
who loves me - actually hates me." is too brutal for
many guys to handle. So, drinking, drugs, disease, &
depression become a fatal dynamic for many men trying to "cope"
w. their feelings. And, for many men who do not
'gay-identify' (maybe even have a wife & kids), coming out to
the world may not seem an option. However, if you read on,
you're going to reach the startling conclusion that you were
never as alone as you suspected, and that society
has built a tower of lies around sexuality that they
hypocritically call "morality" on one hand, & "liberation" -
callously on the other. Guys who love guys & aren't 'GAY'?
We're G0Y; & we don't play by 'their' shifting, foggy,
obtuse rules any more (hence, this site)! You're N0T
alone! You're N0T a freak. One size doesn't fit all!
And the thing that is really going to bake your noodle is that
there are probably lots (L0TS) of guys near you feeling
the exact same way -clueless that they're surrounded by normal
guys feeling the same way! Read on!
Real Reason for so-called 'Homo Hate':
men loathe the concept of being "arse-phuck'd"; - even being
associated with "arse-phuckr's"! Men who rape
men use that form of assault for a reason: It is the ultimate
statement of disrespect.
The original use of the word
"PHUCK" was a 'cuss' insinuating penetration. It is the
verbal approximation of the nonverbal noises ASSociated with the
term's meaning. So then, the term "phuck-you" has a very
specific meaning when spoken man to man!
Since the media, (& now
society), - generally ASSerts: That "All Same-Sex Affection = 'GAY'", &
since the media asserts that "GAY*sex*" = "ANAL*sex*"; -- Most men
logically connect the term "gay" with ;
- something that they'd never do to their buddies!
And, like it or not: Guys who wear the "gay" label make
guilty by ASSociation
w. a group that loudly TOLERATES EVERY perversion under the sun
-& calls that clusterphuck: "gay
pride"! G0YS, however, believe that pride should be
not male/male intimacy; -- But the dirty, disrespectful & even
dangerous attitudes towards masculinity such as 'ANAL*SEX'. Most
men want absolutely nothing to do with such forms of moral turpitude.
The term "GAY" is generally shunned, -not because it implies tender,
physical male friendships, --but because the term is solidly welded to
the notions of AnalSex, GenderBending & other forms of abuse in the
public psyche. Most men find those implications grossly offensive to
their own ethos.
Understand AntiGay's "Why":
Contrary to the anti-samesex
messages that so many guys continuously broadcast (out of terror of
being associated with a group of half-men); --The vast majority (+63%)
of men recognize a certain degree of internal same-gender affection for
certain other guys. However, when given the chance to act on these
feelings, -the expression does NOT resemble the types of stereotypical
behaviors that the "gays" have made themselves notorious for. Most guys
know instinctively that AnalSex is a grossly perilous & shameful fetish;
-A crime against health itself in the practice. Playing in shit is
dangerous & disgusting. Using a man's arse as a proxy for a woman's vag
is a massive act of disrespect & incredibly perilous from a medical
angle. And yet "GAY" is a term that has been WELDED by use to those
very acts of shame. And for that set of ASSociations
do men of good conscience shun any connection to the term "gay". A
person may say "GAY"
meaning simple "same-gender affection", --but the world around them
hears "shamefully complicit to AnalSex;
--an arse-fukk'r". So, quite literally,
--ethical, discerning men avoid association with the term "gay" like
they avoid the plague. Most guys have a few buddies that they'd enjoy a
long bout of nude physical contact with. However -these same guys would
never consider buttfukk'n a bro. That offensive concept doesn't even
enter their mind. So, while outwardly they're "anti-gay", --they're
actually "anti-emasculation". They'd NEVER BITCH-A-BRO. And they
don't want any ASSociation with any group of "guyths" who would. Get
"You bark - like dogs!
Dogs lack a full
vocabulary. They have 1 word -for everything. And that word doesn't
bode well in print to explain anything. To understand them - it's
all context based (not what they "say" but "how" they "say" it)!
My point is that sloppy use of words results in the vague conveyance
of ideas. If you want to have a discussion or debate, --your
terminology needs to be precise. But I hear lots of people barking
like dogs on the issue of human sexuality (& lots of these people
have college degrees). Once your vocabulary is precise, -terms
like "Gay", "Straight", "Bi", "Lifestyle" & the like, -all begin to
sound like a whole lot of barking. Why? Because they are inherently
meaningless & describe fictional states that are constructions of
prejudice, vagaries, ignorance & dogma.
I.E: When the term "GAY" was coined, --it originally meant "Same
Gender Attracted". G0YS have no issue with THAT
simple definition. However, -as time passed, the term "GAY" became
connected with cross-gender behaviors (which is why "intersexed" &
"transgender" ride in the gay-pride passenger seats) & perilous acts
such as AnalSex. In most places, the term "GAY-SEX" has come to
equate "ANAL-SEX". G0YS completely reject that notion and find the
ASSociation repugnant to our innate morals. Please keep
those distinctions in mind whenever you read a G0Y commentary
critical of "The GAYS". It is not the original use of the
term, --but what it has morphed into, -that g0ys find reprehensible
(& "reprehensible" is perhaps, -too soft of a descriptor).
Just over a decade...
"As I write this
it's difficult to believe that over a decade has passed since the
philosophy of being g0y went online. In retrospect - it has
been an amazing journey - with growth beyond anything I'd have
imagined. Many people from many places around the globe have
identified with the concept and implemented the term "g0y" in their
own cultures, languages & media-forms! It humbles me - honestly. I
know that some may have an impression of me via my pen -that
"humility" was an attribute I could have used more of. I write
forcefully for the sake of the g0ys movement & getting the main
points across in limited time and space. I've seen so many
NON-g0y groups speak lies & half-truths in soft, eloquent speech --
that I wanted to break step with the politics of soft-spoken
nonsense (that often kills anyone who follows the path that softly
spoken lies make). Where I may have gone too far in the extreme
- I whole-heartedly apologize. An where I did not go far enough -
likewise. However, what WE did together was to spread a
message of masculine respect that the Greeks during the time of
Alexander would have been proud of. It's a message of respect
that has literally saved the lives of men in despair - men who had
been made to feel that they were worthless as men because they
happened to love men /too. G0YS has shown that you can be a
man who loves men and live life with masculine respect, health, &
dignity - without the need to embrace affectations, fetishes or
confused-practices that are opposed to our testosterone-tending core
instincts as men. G0Ys believe that "morality" should not be an
abstract set of rules, but predicated on the outcomes of actions.
By its very nature: Love works no ill toward others. The message
seems all too obvious. However, there are many people (especially of
the GAY identity), -who are promoting debasing messages of
self-gratification at the expense of health, dignity and even life
itself! And because the fallout is so serious, --0ur tone
becomes as serious and uncompromising when the health & lives of men
are at stake. G0YS naturally recognize this hard fact.
These are adult issues for men and the temperament must be likewise.
So many men know these things in their very core. Thanks to all of
you who have made this vision a global reality." - The G0YS
is not our mascot. G0YS don't play in shit, -nor do we
lust after its origin. The shit-smeared act
of anal-sex (- the primary focus of the "GAY-male
paradigm"), -makes it the most sexually-debased movement on the
planet evidenced by an unparalleled history of disease-statistics proving
that assertion beyond any shadow of a doubt!"
"Generally, when you hear the terms 'Gay', 'Straight', "Bi", or
'Lifestyle' being used; --You're usually listening to subjective
is a Rapidly Spreading Global Phenomenon!
merely ask that you, the visitor - look for yourself, -& draw your own conclusions!
G0YS - an explosively popular philosophy
among men in general
- is sweeping the globe (as seen from
Etc; - from all over the world). Our
well reasoned positions regarding sexuality have taken to task both:
the religious "fundamentalists", -and- the "liberal gays". Our
members are among the healthiest men of any demographic on the
planet! Among g0ys, sexually transmitted diseases are a virtual
How can this be? G0YS, by our very nature, reject
anal-fetish related acts! And, we strongly discourage physical
intimacy with others who reject our philosophy. This
philosophy lowers our risk of perilous sexually transmitted diseases
by: 1,250,000% (vs. the men who call themselves
Our statistics are derived from figures provided by the
regarding the extreme perils of anal fetishes: +90% of ALL
sexually transmitted infections among men (STD's/STI's) are spread via
G0YS' life-philosophy is: "Love is interaction which seeks the
betterment of the other (& does no harm)."; --An Ancient, Obvious Truth.
Demographically, G0YS tend to be libertarian &/or anarchist,
pro-life, soberly-minded, culturally rounded, analytical, logical,
alpha-personalities & intellectually - above average.
published research that indicated that
of the male population had experienced one or more
sensual/sexual encounters with other men. Despite controversy
surrounding some of his methodology, --
mounting evidence continues to confirm that many of his findings
were indeed, - accurate.
Likewise, since this
website went on-line, it has drawn the fire of criticism from many
directions & has been misrepresented by some who would rather
slander, than offer a rational argument for their posturing.
the anti-gay and pro-sodomy groups stridently opposed to the
views of the G0YS, -it makes you wonder why neither group can
rationally accept the g0ys' time-proven message of: love &
respect of the masculine - framed in honesty, dignity, health &
self-control." - Unbekannt
So, You think that
You're the "Only One"?
Each red dot represents a city that has internet users who have
accessed this website recently. You
may be here because you feel completely alone in your
situation. After all, you're basically a regular guy who
behaves like any other regular guy. You may even date women or
be married. But, deep inside, you also deal with strong
feelings of real warmth + genuine affection for other guys too.
You've seen the media's take on the "gay" community; & you
do N0T relate to that image, AND you find many of the practices
of so-called "gay-men" -repulsive to your basic values system.
The truth is, you're a guy who really loves masculinity &
appreciates those traits in other men, while simultaneously finding
actions that effeminize men to be grossly distasteful. You probably look forward to holidays with
your buds -- especially those times when you can horse around,
wrestle & even be a little tender -- like when you've had a few
(or maybe just got done pinning the guy down wrestling) &
your arm around him, resting a hand on his upper or lower back in a
casual, reaffirming hug. You're the definition of "respectful", but
you want to be closer, too. The mind-blowing truth is simply this:
Odds are greatly in your favor that the majority of your buds feel
the same feelings for a few guys in various degrees! Your peace of
mind will actually come by understanding what's truly good & natural behavior, -as
opposed to the "shameful disrespect" masquerading as "progressive
gay-culture". Are you ready to live a more abundant life by
learning to apply wisdom to your thought process
-while rejecting the fool's errands society's educated fools task the
93 Percent Of "Straight" Men In
This Study Said
They've Cuddled With Another Guy
ATTRACTION is a huge factor, but
REPULSION plays a large role in
establishing sexual attraction limits, too.
See, some people who are attracted to one gender are repulsed by
the notion of being with the other in a sexual sense. These
are most often the people who believe that a person is either
"STRAIGHT-OR-GAY" They cannot imagine how a person who loves
gender "X" could also love gender "Y". Then there are the guys
who may not be heavily attracted to one gender -but not repulsed by
the possibility of an intimate encounter with the right person of
that gender, anyway. These are the guys who wouldn't seek to
get intimate with another guy, --but might be willing to let the
other guy get intimate with him if the situation was right.
So, guys who claim to be "straight" may well be --in the fact that
they are strongly attracted to women. BUT (and this point is
key): Some of those same guys are not opposed to being treated to a
complimentary orgasm by another guy -under the right conditions
(they're not repulsed by the notion of being tendered on by the same
gender). Some studies indicate that the more comfortable a man
is with his physique - the more open he will be to letting other men
pay attention to him physically. Men generally each experience different levels of
physical attraction/repulsion. These (2) dynamics act together
within the context of relationships to
determine a guy's sexual behavior and whether he's an active
aggressor in a sexual encounter or merely a willing recipient of various types of
love my friends, & have no compulsion to play inside anyone's anus."
So, once a guy discovers that
other guys are also receptive to M2M
without the 'RAUNCH'
-- he often has an extreme epiphany, - where he realizes that
feelings of deep compassion for some of his peers are totally
normal, ethical & part of natural, masculine affection. And,
-most of these same guys do N0T relate to the culture they see the
mass-media portray as: "GAY"! Such men are 'G0Y
(spelled with a ZER0)'; -- & the mind blowing truth
We (g0ys) represent the majority of men! And
because that's the truth - you won't need switch off your higher
brain functions, nor abandon (nor compromise) your ethics,
nor accept gender-bending behavior, nor breach your relationship with God (as some men have been falsely
led to believe).
For those with questions along Theological lines -see the "God
Hates" section to the left!
ALL Talking about "G0YS"...
is currently a GLOBAL phenomenon. That's a documented fact -as many people are
translating the simple, core g0y philosophies into their own
languages and impacting their own cultures. Major "GAY" publications are taking note
of the G0Ys movement (such as the South African "GAY PAGES" as shown
to the right. Some are curious; -others confused & yet others
even welcoming (especially in areas where STD's like HIV have
ravaged the population). Some "GAY" publications &
commentaries are outright hostile toward g0ys --especially in those
regions where "GAY" has been welded to the specter of AnalSex (a
fetish that g0ys totally reject).
What men all over the world
are discovering is that g0ys are -and have been- the MAJORITY of
"normal guys" all along! That's the real story!
Since the 1970's, the term "GAY" has
morphed to become a
gender-bending & disease-spreading,
circus-show (one that g0ys thoughtfully distance ourselves from).
+60% is +3
out of Every 5 Guys! No "Minority"!
love the contact & would like to be closer, but you have these fears
that people might think you were a "queer". However,
you have no desire to put
anything up the other guy's arse, but the fact remains that
you'd really enjoy cuddling up with the dude; - slow rubb'n on him &
generally make him feel good from brows to balls. You're into
masculine guys but you're not ... "gay" -- at least
not like the media portrays "gay" as!
care about any media programming with the word "Queer" in it;
nor do you relate (at all) to men who prance about with the same
mannerisms as the
guys in movies such as the: Bird Cage.
Statistics show that
over +60% of the men around you deal with similar feelings! That's 3
out of every 5 guys (and it may be as high as 2 out of 3)! Whatever
the case, -it is the MAJORITY of men. Take a few moments to
meditate on that last point.
MOST GUYS FEEL THIS WAY. It's
not a "minority"
as you've been so often told (The
consists of the
guys in high-heels with dildos stuffed up their asses)!
What has occurred is that the stigmas & negative stereotypes
term "GAY" (a product of a vile, shameless & vocal minority)
have shamed most men into denying the scope of their actual feelings
for certain other men - and obscured the fullness of their sexuality
(hiding it behind relationships with women). Virtually ALL men
are amBIsexual to some degree. Repeat it until it sinks in
and changes your world view. Yes. I'm saying that virtually
all guys find attractive men to be desirable as close friends (&
more). That is the FACT that most guys are lying about. "I'm
straight" - says the prepubescent 11 year old boy. And his
peers believe it! Why? They're naive. An 11 year old knows nothing
about sexuality (his nor anyone else's). 3 years from now, -he'll
probably be doing a circle-jerk with his male buddies. And if he
turns out to be a criminal -- in a decade or two, --he'll probably
be renting the prison-bitch for a cigarette pack; --All the while
professing openly how "straight" he is (based on the bizarre notion
that as long as he's not the one being mounted ... that he's somehow
still magically 'straight')!
Wake up, brother! People lie all the time; --& in this matter of
sexuality --they often lie when the truth would serve them well.
The terms "Gay", "Straight", "Bi", "Lifestyle" & the like, -are
inherently meaningless; -& often describe fictional states of mind
that are constructions of prejudice, vagaries, ignorance & dogma.
The MAJORITY of men who profess to be "TOTALLY STRAIGHT" are lying.
It's that simple. MOST GUYS FIND ATTRACTIVE GUYS TO BE
ATTRACTIVE. Did I say "MOST". I actually meant, "MOST"!
Pick 5 men at random. Statistically, 3+ of them (by their very
natures) are g0ys!
"Forget the former
things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
FAKE G0YS? Another fascinating observation is of the number of groups
(especially porn oriented)
appearing on the internet that exploit the term "g0y" - spelled w.
a zer0; --without actually holding to the g0y-philosophy! What a
bunch of "0xyMorons"! Remember, -we warned you about their
Sorry, but the pure-light of g0ydom was bound to attract the
gonna keep on
isn't about basic masculine affection!
This website examines many stereotypes about guys who are affectionate
on other dudes (M2M Male-to-Male Affection); -- & it smashes the
"gay" stereotypes with a line of thinking that is backed by an
ancient paradigm; - The major truth being that guys who luv guys are
in the majority & most often do N0T identify with the
labeled as "GAY" by the media! You see, there is a
growing body of
(I/E: above Kinsey stats)
showing that it is
for most men to feel warmth, affection & compassion toward
other men. However, in a society where the modern-media
almost exclusively shows men who "love" men as effeminate,
milquetoast, nellie, & into anal sex, -- the
that is loudly broadcast is that "Normal men feel affection only
for women, but men who are tender on other men are into "ASS-SEX"."
That message (a gigantic fukk'n lie), is relatively new -
since the post-mid 20th century. And
it is the Gay-Male media that is the loudest promoter of that lie. And that message - the
LIE - causes a great deal of social confusion. And most men
actively avoid any association with the "gay label" for this very
-what are these protesters actually protesting?
image to the right: It was taken in Latvia at a demonstration and
the sign says: "Homosexuality is immoral" across the top. But, what
is the IMAGE associated with "homosexuality" on that very same sign? AnalSex! And WHY is the ButtFuck the "gay mascot"? It's the mantra
of the gay-male community. The image of analsex is so morally objectionable
(for many sound, rational, medical reasons)
that people often completely forget about the existence of
LESBIANS while engaged in the debate about "anal-sex"! Consider
that fact for a moment. LESBIANS (who, technically, don't fuck
anyone) have the lowest rates of STD's of any demographic (except -
maybe, g0ys)! And the signs displayed in the image to the right
certainly do NOT seem to be targeting lesbians. Hmmm.
well recorded in history,
are cultures of men who loved masculinity, - and were N0T
into anal-sex nor the feminization of other guys. And the
truth is, that there are lots of guys who luv other guys & would
love to cuddle up (not with everyone, but w. the buds they
without anyone getting it up the arse! However the stigma of "gay
sex" & the media images around what "they" say about men who luv men
"do", - scares the social-daylights out of most guys, & prevents
them from being honestly affectionate toward other guys! Ironically,
the "gay male community" has become the loudest icon AGAINST male to
male intimacy. And men all over the globe in a movement called
"g0ys" are declaring the harsh distinction between "g0ys" vs. "gAys".
And when people hear about that distinction -
amazing changes occur in the behavior of entire populations!
Sadly, there is a
paranoid section of society (eternally on the proverbial witch-hunt)
that has become so disconnected with the reality of natural
affection, that any demonstration of affection is seen to be
some sort of 'foreplay' & a butt-fuck precursor. The proverbial inmates, -for a
major part, - have indeed, taken over "the asylum"!
G0YS stand as a firm reminder that most men reject the "gay-male
butt-fuck paradigm", -- especially among men who happen to love
the divisive & fictional concept of a 'heterosexual-norm',
- modern fallacies like "sexual
orientation" become as farcical as the medieval
concepts of a sun circling a flat earth! The vast
majority of the male population is amBIsexual (a/k/a "BiSexual")
to some degree. Deal with it. It's OK. Renew your mind!
Aren't you g0ys just
term "phobic" comes from the root "PHOBIA" - meaning fear.
Being guys who love guys/too, it seems fairly obvious that we're
not afraid of guys who love guys. What g0ys see as a
paramount issue is the SELF-INFLICTED-REPUTATION that has
swallowed the gay community & the need to distance ourselves
from that reputation. Why? Stigma
(See analogy to
For example, what does dressing in drag have to do with being
a guy into guys? Clothing is a cultural thing, so why do
so many people associate cross dressing with "gay"?
In other words: If "gay" is merely about who a person is
attracted to - as so many people blindly assert; -- then why
make the connection with Drag, or other Intersexed behavior?
The glaring implications of this common association mindset are
psychology of many "gAy" men into "drag" is a fixation on what
is perceived to be feminine. However, the fixation is more
often about "form" than actual function. This MISsPERCEPTION,
-- that places "form" on a pedestal, - invariably leads to
sexual expression that is likewise - more about form - than
ANAL. This is a psychosis - & an unhealthy,
fetish-driven fantasy-life. To reiterate: What does being
a guy who is sexually interested in guys - have anything
whatsoever to do with gender-bending in any way shape or form?
Absolutely nothing; - & g0ys find the mixing of the concepts to be
offensive. We are men who love men[.] It has nothing to do
with the feminine. Implying otherwise is simply a LIE.
Human nature being what it is -- we don't expect many gAys (up to
their collective arse-holes in lie-based fetish-fantasy), -to
embrace what is g0y: Quite the opposite... And you know ... g0ys
really don't care.
G0YS detest the concept of playing in another
We're not the
only group that feels this way; -And you'll notice I
used the gender-neutral term "person",
& not "guy", -- because whether male or female ...
anal-play is a dangerous fetish. Many people consider
immoral because the
practice is by far the primary vector
for spreading STDs globally. This point is made in
several places on this site because the stigma around it is
predominant in the public psyche, -- butt
guys into the practice of anal seem oblivious to that fact & exhibit a
general callous disregard for the safety of themselves & others
by their acceptance of such dangerous actions. The
language such guys
use to address other guys into this fetish is likewise
gender degrading: "Girl", "Bitch", "Queen", etc.
It's more evidence that there are elements in 'gAy' culture that
deride masculinity, & do not know how to treat men as men in
general. One writer observed that the 'gAy male culture'
seems schizophrenic: On the one hand idolizing
hyper-masculinity, & on the other hand seeming preoccupied with
'drag'. Bizarre role models result in bizarre group
behavior -- hence the preoccupation with anal-fetishes.
However, just a great meal does not involve a bowl of shit for
dessert; -- Neither does making love to another guy have
anything to do with his anus. G0YS realize the
common-sense fact that penetration
only equals sex when with women &
only when genital-to-genital; -- Never anal.
G0YS refuse to be ASSociated
with a culture that is framed in the mind of the public as a
bunch of shit-tainted, ass-fuckers. We choose the term
"G0Y" because we are men who reject all the 'baggage'
ASSociated with the "gAy-male community". G0YS
-by our very natures- find gay-stereotypes grossly offensive. Human nature being what it is
-- I don't expect guys into anal-fetishes to embrace what is
g0y: Quite the opposite... And you know ...
g0ys really don't care
what those with a hom0cidal-feces-fetish think
There is a fundamental
syllogistic fallacy (reasoning
error) that can be described by following generalization:
categories are said to be connected because they share a common
flaw in reasoning is promoted time & time again by people who insist
that: Because (2) groups (g0y & gAy) share a common property (M2M
sexuality), that they are connected (Ergo: Both "GAY").
G0YS insist that a common element doesn't make us any more part of the
"GAY" community than "Ice" can be called "Steam" because both contain
"Water". Philosophically, the fact that the term "gay" is
nebulous (lacking a clear social definition), -constitutes the basis
of 0ur need for a distinction -because today, many people
(both from within & without the gay community) associate the term
"gay" with forms of behavior that many people find morally
reprehensible - even criminal. The inability of the
gay-community to police itself or set any standards within,
constitutes a caveat that constitutes the basis for
g0ys to make the distinction between "US" vs. "THEM".
Some people, (who cannot seem to
understand our sense of incredulity & disgust about the reputation
that "gay male" community has brought upon itself) accuse g0ys of
being "self loathing" or words to that effect. So, once again - I'll
clarify our position to those who make such assertions: We don't
loathe ourselves. We loathe
complicit arse. If you don't understand the difference
between "us" & "you", -I'm sure that there are available several
great books for preschoolers with big colorful pictures that help
explain the difference between those pronouns.
So then: G0YS are not
"phobic" at all. It's a healthy aversion
away from the group that calls itself "GAY" ("GAY" wanting to
claim all same-sex affections as it's own, and then,
coincidentally, submerge them all by
ASSociation into a
moral-cesspool of perilous-fetishes &
genderfuck). Most men happen to strongly agree with g0ys on
a gut level -whether or not they're open in admitting it.
If this is not you or you feel some need to defend "all things
gay", then you're in the wrong place. Clear enough?
Click here to exit this site...
Most men keep aspects of their best friendships very private:
with above-average looks & an alpha personality, I've had a
the opportunity to experience first hand what so many men won't
admit happens among themselves & other guys. Since
becoming sexually mature, I've realized that I bonded
emotionally with other guys & I enjoy the physical aspect of
close relationships. I'm attracted to an honest, masculine
personality. "Effeminate men" are a turn off -- no matter
how good they look (If I wanted a girlie, I'd date one).
Associating with athletes regularly, -I was always around "tough guys", & in
the mind of most of my peers, -- I was one as well. My
experiences with so-called "straight guys" (who turned out to be
"g0y", too) are fairly numerous, & started early on.
Unlike the 'gay culture' (portrayed in the media as all about "painted
nails" & the next piece of tail), -- my private, physical
relationships with my buds was never considered by myself to be "casual"; --& the level
of friendship's bonds remains the deepest & most intimate even
till this day. I consider them
all members of my extended family. As a contributor
to the article on this site about "G0YDAR",
I can tell you that this is N0T about "seducing straight men".
It's about befriending another guy so deeply that he drops his
guard & lets you discover that he was g0y all along.
I'm amazed at the number of "gAy"
guys who will accuse the
G0YDAR essay of being a "manual to seduce straight men", --
and in the next breath they'll insist that sexual orientation is
"fixed". Yeah: They'll insist that you can't make a gay-guy - "straight"; -- while suggesting that the article on G0YDAR
helps make straight-guys - "gAy"!
What g0ys understand by instinct - is that we don't embrace the
stigmas surrounding what society says "gay" is; --Quite
the contrary. Most g0ys are in 'deep conservative cover' & many
are ironically, oblivious to the fact that there are so many
other men like them on the planet. It can be a painful
existence feeling isolated - believing that you have
nobody on earth to talk to about how "you" feel.
0ur's is the group that
shows how to find. Kinsey hit on the 'g0y' phenomenon when
he compiled his statistics in the 1940's. When you
read the statistics about men who have had at least one sensual
encounter with another guy ... well, that's the mere boundary of
G0Y (& it substantially exceeds 50%)! It's a
complex psychology, but so many g0ys are afraid of the 'gAy
label" that they feign to be "totally-straight" -- that is until they
meet another guy who overwhelms their feelings. Such guys
are simply g0y; -- & until this movement - many simply haven't
had a term or a group philosophy they could identify with (the
majority of so-called
'bi-sexual' men are indeed, g0y -
because the truth is: Most men are, indeed, amBisexual
to some degree). And I want to drive that point
home by adding that ALL of the men I've
ever had a close physical relationship with are considered
"straight" by everyone who casually knows them. It is my
experience and firm belief that the number of men who have
physical relationships with other men do so in an environment
complete privacy and far outnumber men who call themselves
Most men are, indeed, amBisexual to some degree.
Get that FACT between your ears. Society constantly tells
a LIE saying: "Most people are straight and a few have same-sex
attractions."; - But G0YS say: "Most men are amBIsexual to some
degree and therefore G0YS outnumber 'gays' 5:1". Once you
realize this fact, -it'll change your entire view of male
is not a simple thing.
It's multi dimensional. Graphed
now exist to graph the frenzied electrical
connections in the brain),
ATTRACTORS look like the image to the right. The complexity
is almost infinite, however, brain structures create similar
attractors -virtual circuits -- although no two are identical &
they can slightly change form over time as nature & nurture
influence them. Within the brain, this virtual object is
the electrical storm-front that triggers a flurry of action,
responses & reactions. It even spawns more attractors that
cause more activity! Although this type of abstract
analogy may be beyond the intuition of most readers, - let it
suffice to say that actual mathematical models now exist to
explain everything from variances in sexual attraction -- to why
some people hate broccoli while others like it.
-- is an attractor set - that many, many men understand
intuitively without knowing the first thing about Kinsey, or
chaos mathematics. This website examines the 'shape' of
being "g0y". If you don't understand, that's ok.
Countless men already experience this kind of attraction, & the
current social labels & group paradigms are ill-fitting to them.
We can help them to understand.
We are the G0YS!
"The fact remained that
despite the media's reporting of gay-pride & related events,
-- despite all the images & the strange ways that same
sex relationships were painted by the press: I never saw a
single broadcast or read a single article in any paper that
came close to describing the tenderness, intimacy & mutual
respect of the relationships I'd been having with other guys
on & off throughout my lifetime. For the most part,
the mass media -- traditional & so-called 'gay', -
completely misrepresent the reality of most intimate
male/male relationships. Society as a whole has
lies so completely that in order to begin to understand the
truth, you must first
overcome a massive paradigm of deceit
projected from nearly every
G0YS: 0ur natural
condition. There are N0 written rules:
Just Reasons, Revelations & Raw Testosterone!
One particularly odd
phenomenon I have observed since g0ys became a global term - is that
many people (usually "GAYS") seem preoccupied with what they call
the "Rules of G0YDOM" - as if g0ys has a set of bylaws.
Apparently, many "gay" men can't imagine that there are men who find
the notion of anal-sex to be completely antagonistic to masculine
behavior. Apparently, many "gay" men can't imagine that
there are men who find the notion of gender-bending to be repugnant
to their ethos. Apparently, many "gay" men can't imagine that
there are men who find the notion of casually spreading STDs/STIs to
be the hallmark of a morally-bankrupt character. Those "gay"
men must believe that men who don't do those things only abstain
because they are following some set of rigid "rules". Such
"gay" men simply can't fathom the notion that most men simply don't
want to jump into the flood of abuse that the "gay" male community
paints itself (say "paints itself") as being the embodiment of.
"G0YS" as described in this website (& this website is the very
origin of the term "G0YS") - are simply men who share a common set
of characteristics. You either share these traits or you do
not. Those who share these traits are G0YS. No "Rules";
- Simply the Reality of being G0Y. Remember that simple
fact. And, whenever you read an article, essay or see broadcasting
in which a series of "Rules for being a G0Y" are presented; --
you'll know you're seeing something done by someone who doesn't
understand even the 1st principle of being one of the G0YS!
"Explain to me
again how sheep bladders may be employed in the prevention of
- Monty Python (In
Search of the Holy Grail)
"It is well known,
that buggery is a principal cause of earthquakes and so must be