Ground ZER0 in the "UNgay" Paradigm Shift!

+60% of all men experience some SameSex attractions. You know that +60% is NOT a "minority", -right?
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WARNING:
Zealot Zone!

This website contains content authored by people who actually have passionate beliefs that matter. We don't tolerate fools well, -nor do we make light of life/death issues. We don't giggle at mindsets that downplay perilous philosophies, actions, or the effects of such. I.E:  Dr. Ignaz Semmelweis is one of our  role-models. Like Semmelweis's common-sense approach to hygiene, -G0YS simply point out the well known perils about playing in SHIT; --Perils that the "GAY" community desperately seems to want to ignore & make light of the cause/s. Of course, -being a g0y involves more to a guy's personality profile than a natural revulsion to using soiled diapers as a picnic spread. But, sanity is always a good place to start. If you find yourself being "offended" at content on this site, --simply ask yourself: "Are these g0ys denouncing a group or act that is dangerous, disrespectful, demeaning, disease-spreading or deadly?" -OR- "Is the tone of the site appropriate to the seriousness of the subject at hand?". If the obvious answer is "YES", -then you're experiencing a variation of the "Semmelweis Reflex"; --And G0YS are not the cause of your offense ... (You are). 


Separation:

Many guys feel a great sense of separation from others over time as they live with the presumption that same-gender-affections makes them somehow different from average guys.  You see, many of us got the 'message' all our lives (post 1950) that guys who were into other guys were (pick a vile expletive)...  Our families, churches, friends, enemies, schools, etc., -- often paint/ed a language of hate speech aimed at all 'socially forbidden attractions'.  There were also stereotypes about same-sex activity that were often disgusting distortions of some type of fetish (I.E: anal-sex: Most guys want nothing to do with that sort of dangerous & debased behavior).  Most of us could not identify with the way 'gay' was portrayed, so we adopted the same 'anti-gay' rhetoric as our friends, families, churches, schools, & even our enemies - all in order to stay hidden.  We don't need to be told that this is a vicious circle.  Growing with the passing of time, was the feeling that we didn't fit into our peer groups.  This isn't as much because we had compassionate feelings for our buds, but because there was an overriding realization; -- that nobody really seemed to cared about the real, hidden "us".  Time provides the cement that makes most of these beliefs firm in their substance.  As some men have said: "What I suspected in my teens, I accepted in my twenties; And overwhelming depression often followed everywhere."  But, with this realization often arose a stark contradiction.  You see, although many of us were majorly repressed; --We often discovered (amazingly) that we had friends who we could & did get extremely close to.  And, as we got older, we also begin to realize that maybe, other 'STR8' guys weren't as 'STR8' as they projected, either!


"Scouts?" Yeah, for a lot of guys!


The Real Message of Prejudice:

What the continual message is to the person who is too straight to identify with "gay", -- to the person unsuspected as having anything other than 'normal'  feelings ... What that ultimate message really is: -- Is that the real person (the one with the real feelings kept behind a mask), is unacceptable & unlovable.  After all, if you have close friends & ties with family all based on an incomplete projection of who you are, -- AND these same people openly curse, loathe & demean people who openly have the same types of feelings you so carefully conceal; - Then the implied message can only be: 'You are hated for who you really are; - despite the fact that you may seem the most popular person in the room'.  This is why people who deal with same-sex affections have a suicide rate much higher than other demographic groups.  The realization that "Everybody who loves me - actually hates me." is too brutal for many guys to handle.  So, drinking, drugs, disease, & depression become a fatal dynamic for many men trying to "cope" w. their feelings.  But, for many men who do not 'gay-identify' (maybe even have a wife & kids), coming out to the world may not seem an option.  However, if you read on, you're going to reach the startling conclusion that you were never as alone as you suspected, and that society has built a tower of lies around sexuality that they hypocritically call "morality" on one hand, & "liberation" - callously on the other.  Guys who love guys & aren't 'GAY'We're G0Y; & we don't play by 'their' shifting, foggy, obtuse rules any more (hence, this site)!  You're N0T alone!  You're N0T a freak.  One size doesn't fit all!  And the thing that is really going to bake your noodle is that there are probably lots (L0TS) of guys near you  feeling the exact same way -clueless that they're surrounded by normal guys feeling the same way!  Read on!


The Real Reason for so-called 'Homo Hate':

Most men loathe the concept of being "arse-phuck'd"; - 0r even being associated with "arse-phuckr's"!  Men who rape men use that form of assault for a reason: It is the ultimate statement of disrespect. 

The original use of the word  "PHUCK" was a 'cuss' insinuating penetration.  It is the verbal approximation of the nonverbal noises ASSociated with the term's meaning.   So then, the term "phuck-you" has a very specific meaning when spoken man to man!

Since the media, (& now society), - generally ASSerts: That "All Same-Sex Affection = 'GAY'", & since the media asserts that "GAY*sex*" = "ANAL*sex*"; -- Most men logically connect the term "gay" with AnalSex - a complicit act - completely degrading & repulsive to masculinity, health & common sense; - something that they'd never do to their buddies! 

And, like it or not: Guys who wear the "gay" label make themselves guilty by ASSociation w. a group that loudly TOLERATES EVERY perversion under the sun -& calls that clusterphuck: "gay pride"!  G0YS, however, believe that pride should be earned. 

The real issue is not male/male intimacy; -- But the dirty, disrespectful & even dangerous attitudes towards masculinity such as 'ANAL*SEX'.  Most men want absolutely nothing to do with such forms of moral turpitude.  The term "GAY" is generally shunned, -not because it implies tender, physical male friendships, --but because the term is solidly welded to the notions of AnalSex, GenderBending & other forms of abuse in the public psyche. Most men find those implications grossly offensive to their own ethos.


Understand AntiGay's "Why":

Contrary to the anti-samesex messages that so many guys continuously broadcast (out of terror of being associated with a group of half-men); --The vast majority (+63%) of men recognize a certain degree of internal same-gender affection for certain other guys. However, when given the chance to act on these feelings, -the expression does NOT resemble the types of stereotypical behaviors that the "gays" have been made notorious for. Most guys know instinctively that AnalSex is a grossly perilous & shameful fetish; -A crime against humanity itself in the practice. Playing in shit is dangerous & disgusting. Using a man's arse as a proxy for a woman's vag is a massive act of disrespect & incredibly perilous from a medical angle.  And yet "GAY" is term that has been WELDED by use to those very acts of shame. And for that set of ASSociations do men of good conscience shun any connection to the term "gay".  A person may say "GAY" meaning simple "same-gender affection", --but the world around them hears "shamefully complicit to AnalSex; --an arse-fukk'r". So, quite literally, --ethical, discerning men avoid association with the term "gay" like they avoid the plague. Most guys have a few buddies that they'd enjoy a long bout of nude physical contact with. However -these same guys would never consider buttfukk'n a bro. That offensive concept doesn't even enter their mind. So, while outwardly they're "anti-gay", --they're actually "anti-emasculation".  They'd NEVER BITCH-A-BRO. And they don't want any ASSociation with any group of "guyths" who would. Get it? 


When the term "GAY" was coined, --it originally meant "Same Gender Attracted".  G0YS have no problem with THAT simple definition. However, -as time passed, the term "GAY" became connected with cross-gender behaviors & perilous acts such as AnalSex. In many places, the term "GAY-SEX" has come to equate "ANAL-SEX". G0YS completely reject that notion and find the ASSociation repugnant to our innate morals.  Please keep those distinctions in mind whenever you read a G0Y commentary critical of "The GAYS".  It is the latter definition, --not the original, -that g0ys find reprehensible (& "reprehensible" is perhaps, -too soft of a descriptor).

In 1948, Alfred Kinsey published research that indicated that over half of the male population had experienced one or more sensual/sexual encounters with other men.  Despite controversy surrounding some of his methodology, -- mounting evidence continues to confirm that many of his findings were indeed, - accurate Likewise, since this website went on-line, it has drawn the fire of criticism from many directions & has been misrepresented by some who would rather slander, than offer a rational argument for their posturing.  We merely ask that you, the visitors - look for yourselves, read the various essays posted by our g0ys contributors, & -then- thoughtfully draw your own conclusions!
"With both the anti-gay and pro-sodomy groups stridently opposed to the views of the G0YS, -it makes you wonder why neither group can rationally accept the g0ys' time-proven message of: love & respect of the masculine - framed in honesty, dignity, health & self-control." - Unbekannt G0YS are about: Trust, Respect, Health, Compassion, & Committment to Masculinity. You too?

So, You think that you're the "Only One"?

MapYou may be here because you feel completely alone in your situation.  After all, you're basically a regular guy who behaves like any other regular guy.  You may even date women or be married.  But, deep inside, you deal with strong feelings of real warmth + genuine affection for other guys too.  You've seen the media's take on the "gay" community; & not only do you N0T relate to that image, but you find many of the practices repulsive to your basic value system.  The truth is, you're a guy who really loves masculinity & appreciates those traits in other men, while simultaneously finding actions that effeminize masculine men to be grossly distasteful <link>.  You probably look forward to holidays with your buds -- especially those times when you can horse around, wrestle & even be a little tender -- like when you've had a few beers (or maybe just got done pinning the guy down wrestling) & you find your arm around him, resting a hand on his upper or lower back in a casual, reaffirming hug. You're the definition of "respectful", but you want to be closer, too.


G0YS is GLOBAL. That's a fact. Major "GAY" publications are taking note of the G0Ys movement (such as the South African "GAY PAGES" as shown to the right).  Some are curious; -others confused & yet others even welcoming (especially in areas where STD's like HIV have ravaged the population).  Many "GAY" publications & commentaries are outright hostile toward g0ys --especially in those regions where "GAY" has been welded to the spectre of AnalSex (an act which g0ys totally reject).  What men all over the world are discovering is that g0ys are and have been "normal guys" all along. Since the 1970's, the term "GAY" has morphed to become a gender - bending & disease - spreading, circus - show (one that g0ys distance ourselves from).  

The mind-blowing truth is simply this: Odds are greatly in your favor that the majority of your buds feel the same feelings for a few guys in various degrees! Resolution comes by understanding what's truly good & natural behavior, -as opposed to the "shameful disrespect" masquerading as "progressive gay-culture". Are you ready to live a more abundant life by learning to apply wisdom to your thought process -while rejecting the fool's errands society's educated fools task the naive with?


So, once a guy discovers that other guys are also receptive to M2M intimacy - without the 'RAUNCH' -- he often has an extreme epiphany, - where he realizes that feelings of deep compassion for some of his peers are totally normal, ethical & part of natural, masculine affection.  And, -most of these same guys do N0T relate to what they see the mass-media portray as: "GAY"!  Such men are 'G0Y (spelled with a ZER0)'; -- & the mind blowing truth is: We (g0ys) represent the majority of menAnd because that's the truth - you won't need switch off your higher brain functions, nor abandon (nor compromise) your ethics, nor breach your relationship with God (as some men have been falsely led to believe). For those with questions along Theological lines -see the "God Hates" section to the left! 

Actually, It's about Two out of Every Three Guys!

You love the contact & would like to be closer, but you have these fears that people might think you were a "queer".  However, you have no desire to put anything up the other guy's arse, but the fact remains that you'd majorly enjoy cuddling up with the dude; - slow rubb'n on him & seeing where it leads.  You're into masculine guys but you're not "gay" -- at least not like the media portrays "gay" as being all about!  You don't care about any media programming with the word "Queer" in it; nor do you relate (at all) to men who prance about with the same mannerisms as the guys in the movie: Bird Cage. You're not alone.  Statistics suggest over +63% of the dudes around you deal with similar feelings! 


Another fascinating observation is of the number of groups (especially porn oriented) appearing on the internet that exploit the term "g0y" - spelled w. a zer0; --without actually holding to the g0y-philosophy! What a bunch of "0xyMorons"!  Remember, -we warned you about their existence! Sorry, but the pure-light of g0ydom was bound to attract the proverbial "bugs"...

"Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? - ISA 43:18-19


That talk about 'FAGS' isn't about basic "M2M"!

This website examines many stereotypes about guys who are affectionate on other dudes (M2M -Male-to-Male Affection); -- & it smashes the "gay" stereotypes with a line of  thinking that is backed by an ancient paradigm; - the major truth being that guys who luv guys are in the majority & most often do N0T identify with what is labeled as "GAY" by the media!  You see, there is a growing body of
study (I/E: above Kinsey stats) showing that it is completely natural for most men to feel warmth, affection & compassion toward other men.  However, in a society where the modern-media almost exclusively shows men who "love" men as effeminate, milquetoast, nellie, & into anal sex, -- the LIE that is loudly broadcast is that "Normal men feel affection only for women, but men who are tender on other men are into "ASS-SEX"."  That message (a gigantic fukk'n lie), is relatively new - since the post-mid 20th century.  

Prior to, & well recorded in history, are cultures of men who loved masculinity, - and were N0T into anal-sex or the feminization of other guys.  And the truth is, that there are lots of guys who luv other guys & would love to cuddle up (not with everyone, but w. the buds they appreciate) without anyone getting it up the arse! However the stigma of "gay sex" & the media images around what "they" say about men who luv men "do", - scares the social-daylights out of most guys, & prevents them from being honestly affectionate toward other guys! 

There is a paranoid section of society (eternally on the proverbial witch-hunt) that has become so disconnected with the reality of natural affection, that any demonstration of affection is seen to be some sort of 'foreplay' & a butt-fukk precursor.  Society, especially western, is becoming more dysfunctional with time, - not less!  The proverbial inmates, -for a major part, - have indeed, taken over "the asylum"!


Without the divisive & fictional concept of a 'heterosexual-norm', - modern fallacies like "sexual orientation" become as farcical as the medieval concepts of a sun circling a flat earth!   The vast majority of the male population is amBIsexual (a/k/a "BiSexual") to some degree.  Deal with it. It's OK. Renew your mind!

Aren't you g0ys just being "Homo-Phobic"?

The term "phobic" comes from the root "PHOBIA" - meaning fear.  Being guys who are into guys, it seems fairly obvious that we're not afraid of guys into guys.  What g0ys see as a paramount issue is the SELF-INFLICTED-REPUTATION that has swallowed the gay community & the need to distance ourselves from that reputation. Why?  Stigma (See analogy to the right).  
For example
, what does dressing in drag have to do with being a guy into guys?  Clothing is a cultural thing, so why do so many people associate cross dressing with "gay"?  In other words: If "gay" is merely about who a person is attracted to - as so many people blindly assert; -- then why make the connection with Drag, or other Intersexed behavior?  The glaring implications of this common association mindset are obvious.   The psychology of many "gAy" men into "drag" is a fixation on what is perceived to be feminine.  However, the fixation is more often about "form" than actual function.  This MIS
sPERCEPTION, -- that places "form" on a pedestal, - invariably leads to sexual expression that is likewise - more about form - than function: ANAL.  This is a psychosis - & an unhealthy, fetish-driven fantasy-life.  To reiterate: What does being a guy who is sexually interested in guys - have anything whatsoever to do with gender-bending in any way shape or form?  Answer: Absolutely nothing; - & g0ys find the mixing of the concepts to be offensive.  We are men who love men[.] It has nothing to do with the feminine.  Implying otherwise is simply a LIE. 
Human nature being what it is -- we don't expect many gAys (up to their collective arse-holes in lie-based fetish-fantasy), -to embrace what is g0y: Quite the opposite... And you know ... g0ys really don't care.

G0YS detest the concept of playing in another person's butt.  We're not the only group that feels this way;  And you'll notice I used the gender-neutral term "person", & not "guy", -- because whether male or female ... butt-play is a dangerous fetish.  Many like myself consider it immoral because the practice is the primary vector for STDs globally.   This point is made in several places on this site because the stigma around it is predominant in the public psyche, -- butt guys into the practice seem oblivious to that fact & exhibit a general callous disregard for the safety of themselves & others by their acceptance of such dangerous actions.  The language such guys use to address other guys into this fetish is likewise gender degrading: "Girl", "Bitch", "Queen", etc.  It's more evidence that there are elements in 'gAy' culture that deride masculinity, & do not know how to treat men as men in general.  One writer observed that the 'gAy male culture' seems schizophrenic: On the one hand idolizing hyper-masculinity, & on the other hand seeming preoccupied with 'drag'.   Bizarre role models result in bizarre group behavior -- hence the preoccupation with anal-fetishes.  However, just a great meal does not involve a bowl of shit for dessert; -- Neither does making love to another guy have anything to do with his anus.  G0YS are N0T under the influence of any delusion that might suggest that anal penetration might somehow equal "sex".  Penetration only equals sex with women & only when genital-to-genital; -- Never anal.  G0YS refuse to be ASSociated with a culture that is framed in the mind of the public as a bunch of shit-tainted, arse-phuckers.  We choose the term "G0Y" because we are men who reject all the 'baggage' ASSociated with "gAy" & the "gAy-male community".  G0YS find it grossly offensive.  Human nature being what it is -- I don't expect guys into anal-fetishes to embrace what is g0y: Quite the opposite... And you know ... g0ys really don't care what those with a hom0cidal feces fetish think.

There is a fundamental syllogistic fallacy (reasoning error) that can be described by following generalization: "Two separate categories are said to be connected because they share a common property."  That flaw in reasoning is promoted time & time again by people who insist that: because (2) groups (goy & gAy) share a common property (M2M sexuality), that they are connected (Ergo: Both "Gay"). 
G0YS insist that a common element doesn't make us any more part of the "GAY" community than Ice can be called Steam because both contain Water.  Philosophically, the fact that the term "gay" is nebulous (lacking a clear social definition), -constitutes a basis for the need for a distinction  -because today, many people (both from within & without the gay community) associate the term "gay" with forms of behavior that many people find morally reprehensible - even criminal.  The inability of the gay-community to police itself or set any standards within, constitutes a set of repugnant traits that constitute the basis for g0ys to make the distinction between "US" vs. "THEM".

Some people, (who cannot seem to understand our sense of incredulity & disgust about the reputation that "gay male" community has brought upon itself) accuse g0ys of being "self loathing" or words to that effect. So, once again - I'll clarify our position to those who make such assertions: We don't loathe ourselves. We loathe YOUR complicit arse.  If you don't understand the difference between "us" & "you", -I'm sure that there are available, -several great books for preschoolers with big colorful pictures that help explain the difference between those pronouns. 

So then: G0YS are not "phobic" at all.  It's a healthy aversion away from the group that calls itself "GAY" ("GAY" wanting to claim all same-sex affections as it's own, and then, coincidentally, submerge them all by ASSociation into a moral-cesspool of perilous-fetishes & genderphuck). Most men happen to strongly agree with g0ys on a gut level -whether or not they're open in admitting it.  If this is not you or you feel some need to defend "all things gay", then you're in the wrong place. Clear enough? Click here to exit this site...


The Experiment that has Been My Life:
(Editorial Contribution) 

Blessed with above-average looks & a leadership personality, I've had a the opportunity to experience first hand what so many people won't admit happens among guys.  Since becoming sexually mature, I've realized that I bonded emotionally with other guys & I enjoy the physical aspect of close relationships.  I'm also attracted to an honest, masculine personality.  "Effeminate men" are a turn off -- no matter how good they look (If I wanted a girlie, I'd date one).  Playing sports like I did, I was always around "tough guys" & in the mind of most of my peers, -- I was one too.  My experiences with so-called "Straight guys" who turned out to be "g0y" are fairly numerous, & started early on.   Unlike the 'gay culture' portrayed in the media as all about "painted nails" & the next piece of tail, -- my relationships with my buds was never considered "casual" in my mind, & the level of friendship's bonds remains the deepest & most intimate even till this day. I consider them all members of my extended family & very few know the details of each of my relationships or the relationships' depths; - nor do I pry into their private lives.  As a contributor to the article on this site about "G0YDAR", I can  tell you that this is N0T about "seducing straight men".  It's about getting to know another guy so well he drops his guard & lets you discover that he was g0y all along.  I'm amazed at the number of "gAy" guys who will accuse the G0YDAR article of being a "manual to seduce straight men", -- and in the next breath insist that sexual orientation is "fixed".  They'll insist that you can't make a gay guy straight; -- while suggesting that the article on G0YDAR helps make straight guys "gAy"!  Hypocrites! What g0ys understand by instinct is that we don't embrace the stigmas surrounding what society says is "gay".  Most g0ys are in 'deep conservative cover' & many are ironically oblivious to the fact that there are many other people like them on the planet.  It can be a painful existence feeling  isolated -- believing that you have nobody on earth to talk to about how "you" feel.  0ur's is group that G0YDAR attempts to find.  Kinsey hit on the 'g0y' phenomenon when he compiled his statistics way back in the 1940's.  When you read the statistics about men who have had at least one erotic encounter with another guy --- that's the mere boundary of G0Y (& it substantially exceeds 50%)!  It's a complex psychology, but so many g0ys are afraid of the 'gAy label" that they feign to be "100% str8" -- that is until they meet another guy they are overwhelmed by.  Such guys are not living discretely for failing to announce their passions to the world.  They're simply g0y; -- & until this movement -simply haven't had a group philosophy they could identify with (a huge number of so-called 'bi-sexual' men are indeed, g0y - because the truth is: most men are, indeed, amBisexual). 


"The scarab is not our mascot.  G0YS don't play in shit, -nor do we lust after it's origin. It really is that simple. The act (anal-sex) -- the focus of the "GAY-male paradigm", -makes them the most  debased movement on the planet and they have a +50x magnitude of disease statistics proving that assertion beyond any shadow of a doubt!" - Veh G0YS are about: Trust, Respect, Health, Compassion, & Committment to Masculinity. You too?

Attraction is not a simple thing.  It's multi dimensional.  Graphed (Yes, the mathematics now exist to graph the frenzied electrical connections in the brain), ATTRACTORS look like the image to the right. The complexity is almost infinite, however, brain structures create similar attractors -virtual circuits -- although no two are identical & they can slightly change form over time as nature & nurture influence them.  Within the brain, this virtual object is the electrical storm-front that triggers a flurry of action, responses & reactions.  It even spawns more attractors that cause more activity!  Although this type of abstract analogy may be beyond the intuition of most readers, - let it suffice to say that actual mathematical models now exist to explain everything from variances in sexual attraction -- to why some people hate broccoli while others like it.  

G0Y -- is an attractor set - that many, many men understand intuitively without knowing the first thing about Kinsey, or chaos mathematics.  This website examines the 'shape' of being "g0y".  If you don't understand, that's ok.  Countless men already experience this kind of attraction & the current social labels & group paradigms are ill-fitting to them.  We can help them to understand.  We are the G0YS! 


"The fact remained that despite the media's reporting of gay-pride & related events, -- despite all the images & the strange ways that  same sex relationships were painted by the press: I never saw a single broadcast or read a single article in any paper that came close to describing the tenderness, intimacy & mutual respect of the relationships I'd been having with other guys on & off throughout my lifetime.  For the most part, the mass media -- traditional & so-called 'gay', - completely misrepresent the reality of most intimate male/male relationships.  Society as a whole has swallowed the Falcon/Falwell lies so completely that in order to begin to understand the truth, you must first overcome a massive paradigm of deceit projected from nearly every source." - a G0Y


"Generally, when you hear the terms 'Gay', 'Straight' or 'Lifestyle' being used; --You're usually listening to subjective gibberish." - Unbekannt
"Explain to me again how sheep bladders may be employed in the prevention of earthquakes." - Monty Python (In Search of the Holy Grail)
"It is well known, that buggery is a principal cause of earthquakes and so must be prohibited."
- Emperor Justinian (WTF!)

This website contains lots of stories, anecdotes, citations & statistics.  Some of them are actual. Some are fictional. And statistics change over time. 
I leave the due diligence to the reader to determine what is real & what is fiction and what statistics need a 2nd look.
Why use fiction at all? Because a wise man once observed that "Artists use lies to tell the truth, -
but evil men use lies to cover up the truth."
Judge for yourself.