"I
grew up in a neighborhood where boys having sex with boys was the rule,
on a regular to occasional basis. As an almost unbroken rule, the sex
involved mutual masturbation as well as oral sex. Anal sex was
generally non-existent. Given that this was a form of sexual
interaction involving boys who had the most sex with their best friends,
and lesser amounts of sex with lesser friends, male bonding factors
applied - as well as sexism . That is, we were all aware of what we were
to do with females, as some of us were doing - as in fucking - but
would never think of doing that [anal intercourse] to one's best friend,
considered to be one's equal. |
...AND YET... So, the dudes I hooked up with knew that we needed to keep our private stuff - private - unless we wanted to be compared with the rump rangers. What we were doing was so private that we thought we were the only guys into each other who didn't want anything to do with the gay crowd - in general. I really don't know how many dudes were hooking up like us - because nobody was saying anything. We were confused - because we were into hott guys, but we couldn't stand phags! I mean, WHAT do you call that! Well, nobody thought to come up with a different word for it - so I guess we all kinda assumed we were proud closet cases that didn't do the butt nasty. Of course - we were so freak'n respectful too. Lots of cuddl'n & compliments & this feel'n like hav'n each others backs covered. Mess with my bros & you're mess'n with me. No gender confusion krap or guys being bitched; - never even entered our minds. We were like those guys in the left frame; -just lots more secret.
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The Mass Media: Well Established Friendship-Killer
The scenario in the left frame above tends to occur in more rural areas - where the discussion in the above-right is the trend of more populated centers. However - since mass media has made more penetration everywhere, - the account in the left frame is generally reported less & less. The primary reason is because of the media's obtuse reporting style about "all things gay", - lumping all same-sex behavior into a single "GLIBTQETC" gender-bending, ass-fuck!ng category. Society has lost the distinction between moral g0y friendships - vs. immoral gAy-disease-spreading behaviors (the former being generally safe, respectful & mutually bonding; --While the latter is dangerous, unequally-postured, exploitative & the product of a society that has abandoned it's moral-masculine compass). As soon as society had been hoodwinked to accept that the butt-fuck was on par with male/male sexuality - then that immoral stigma became the prejudice that attempted to drive g0ys out of sight. As butt-fuck promoters push their message - the innate moral resistance to it gradually diminishes in certain demographics of society. So now, the arse-fuck is gaining acceptance in so-called "straight" circles & with it bringing the same curse of STD's as it did in the parts of the gAy-male community that celebrate it. Because of global media & the spread of pornography soften the moral constitution of countries like China & emerging former 3rd-world nations: Analsex is causing STDs to explode into their populations. These gain primary entry via media exposure to the "gAy-male" community & cross over into M/F demographics via a large pro anal-sex segment & lesser via IV drug use.
-- while they defer to political-correctness & bow to the giant financial interests of companies that make fortunes treating disease. Once the practices are widely in place (as habits), - the next global economic depression will unleash a simmering plague of diseases unlike the world has ever known (as people lose the ability to afford barrier controls -yet continue to engage in high-risk habits without such protections).